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Sounds like he meant it. Pack your stuff and move on. Maybe don’t be so controlling next time.
I can tell from personal experience that bad hygiene gets worse with age – not better. So I would suggest moving on now.
Your dad only cares about his dick right now and will do a anything and sacrifice anything to appease keeping it satisfied with this young girl. Your relationship with him is only transactional now. Same as it is with his GF but he thinks he’s getting his money’s worth. Do what you need to do to play the long game to get what you want now. He will end up giving everything has to this girl and there’s nothing you can do about it. After that cut him off because that’s the life he choose.
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I don’t blame you. Since this is a trigger for you, I’d relate it to tickling for a tickle sensitive person. If my bf followed me around the house continuing to tickle me after I left the room and begged him to stop, I’d hit him too. Sure, you lashed out, which I guess isn’t good, but most people who don’t have Buddhist monk level self control would do the same.
It’s good that you’re taking accountability, but don’t go over the top and catastrophize. You’re human and you’re not an abuser.
It would still be good for both of you to find ways to communicate and handle yourselves in situations like this. You did try to communicate and remove yourself from the situation, which were great steps. Your bf has more to learn than you do tbh. Starting with making an effort to understand how this actually feels for you, since he doesn’t seem to get it
If you take a step back, you'll realize that trying to diagnose your ex is a waste of your time. Write him off, let it go, and move on.
Being 18 is really hard, honestly. I'm 30 and I wouldn't go back if I could.
It took me YEARS to realize that I kept “falling” for unavailable guys because I, myself, was the one not actually ready for a relationship.
It's easy to fawn over someone when you know it can never happen. For me, that was my hormonal, developing brain's way of exercising that romantic outlet: unrequited feelings for close friends/unavailable guys/men who too old for me, etc. I never actually went for any of them (that part is important!) but I was always left feeling the same as you: “why does this always happen to me?”
FWIW, when I finally realized what I was doing, took a step back, and consciously stopped— I pretty much met my now-husband immediately.
You'll figure it out!
Are you able to get couples counselling?