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Drama is ok! But I feel like your anxiety is really putting you through the wringer right now, and that sucks.
I don't think you need to necessarily not be in a relationship right now or ever, etc, but I think starting by talking to a professional isn't a bad call, tbh.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.
Don’t waste your time and energy. He needs to want to change more than you do, for your support to be successful is assisting him to break from his mother.
This dude is more than a fixer-upper: he needs to be completely rebuilt to be suitable for you to make a life with. Cut your losses and look elsewhere.
If she has any issue with it you should break up with her. Also, have you tried colour correcting creams instead of concealer? Works better for some people.
I have no problem with my bf wearing make up ??‍♀️ it's just not a big deal or any size deal for that to be happening
Yeah but the guy has a gf too. 100% bet the guy would say “yeah so, I have a gf too. We are just going to talk about the show”. You have to let guys down gently so they don't become aggressive. You clearly don't understand what it's like to be a woman. Instead of thinking we are all wrong, misinterpreting what you're saying, or don't know what we're talking about, maybe ask yourself what you're not seeing here.
Got another thing to add to this if anyone wants to read/respond: the argument that happened before this was me being genuinely upset at something he said over the phone that he kept denying also, and I went on a 3ish minute rant not yelling but just explaining why it’s so upsetting to me. (it has to do with another sexual thing and basically made me feel like I’m not allowed to masturbate because he said that if I do then I don’t want to have sex. The first thing he said was (in a joking way he says) “you could be sharing with me instead” something like that. And I asked for clarity if he meant using a vibrator with him or if he means having sex instead of masturbating, and he said the latter.) What ensued after was him being angry saying I broke a promise (I have multiple times in our rocky past) by talking about issues while he’s at work. He hung up on me mid sentence and I texted him while upset, it gets worse and worse in ways I don’t know how to explain. Like he’ll respond and tel me I’m doing this to him while he’s at work yet he’ll call over and over and tell me Im controlling communication because I don’t want to talk to his mean self on the phone and I “expect” replies instantly while he’s working which I don’t. I get so upset that I text which is a bad habit but I don’t expect responses right away I jsut hope he’ll read it later. but I’m also wrong if I don’t respond. I go crazy form it but he’ll say I’m the crazy making one. But this is what I ended up apologizing for, after this he told me all sorts of things such as he doesn’t think we’ll work and that I’m a liar for breaking a promise, I don’t care. Etc. basically ready to leave me but just doesn’t, not before shitting on me all day. And the original thing I was upset about remained ignored all because of what I did.
Then after that is when the BJ thing happened, and what ensued after the messages in the post was me basically flipping out even worse on him through text. I couldn’t contain that. And all day he told me everything was my fault for starting it, bringing toxicity back into the relationship, and for texting him a lot of shit after what he said while at work. All day he told me it’s my fault and he abused me because I abused him first. But I abused for an hour versus him all day to me and much worse, and he counts me reacting to the BJ thing as abuse. It’s just my fault. I’m crazy I guess. He told me over and over again I’m wrong for thinking bc what he said was bad and for reacting the way I did to it. He told me all day that he called me with nothing but love and good intentions and I decided to ruin his whole day and the relationship. I’m not saying I’m perfect. I’ve fucked up plenty of times and if I delve into our past it’s too much.
Edit. I don’t know if what I didn’t even counts as abuse but I just tell him ok yeah I abused to not fight about another thing
Drama is ok! But I feel like your anxiety is really putting you through the wringer right now, and that sucks.
I don't think you need to necessarily not be in a relationship right now or ever, etc, but I think starting by talking to a professional isn't a bad call, tbh.
Hang in there!
Triggered? Nah, more like perplexed. Dumbfounded even. but triggered. Don't sweat the small stuff (it's all small stuff).
I'm not really following the biology but
I agree, it's probably too much of a bother to explain things
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.
Don’t waste your time and energy. He needs to want to change more than you do, for your support to be successful is assisting him to break from his mother.
This dude is more than a fixer-upper: he needs to be completely rebuilt to be suitable for you to make a life with. Cut your losses and look elsewhere.
If she has any issue with it you should break up with her. Also, have you tried colour correcting creams instead of concealer? Works better for some people.
I have no problem with my bf wearing make up ??‍♀️ it's just not a big deal or any size deal for that to be happening
Hello, cisgender.
Yeah but the guy has a gf too. 100% bet the guy would say “yeah so, I have a gf too. We are just going to talk about the show”. You have to let guys down gently so they don't become aggressive. You clearly don't understand what it's like to be a woman. Instead of thinking we are all wrong, misinterpreting what you're saying, or don't know what we're talking about, maybe ask yourself what you're not seeing here.
Got another thing to add to this if anyone wants to read/respond: the argument that happened before this was me being genuinely upset at something he said over the phone that he kept denying also, and I went on a 3ish minute rant not yelling but just explaining why it’s so upsetting to me. (it has to do with another sexual thing and basically made me feel like I’m not allowed to masturbate because he said that if I do then I don’t want to have sex. The first thing he said was (in a joking way he says) “you could be sharing with me instead” something like that. And I asked for clarity if he meant using a vibrator with him or if he means having sex instead of masturbating, and he said the latter.) What ensued after was him being angry saying I broke a promise (I have multiple times in our rocky past) by talking about issues while he’s at work. He hung up on me mid sentence and I texted him while upset, it gets worse and worse in ways I don’t know how to explain. Like he’ll respond and tel me I’m doing this to him while he’s at work yet he’ll call over and over and tell me Im controlling communication because I don’t want to talk to his mean self on the phone and I “expect” replies instantly while he’s working which I don’t. I get so upset that I text which is a bad habit but I don’t expect responses right away I jsut hope he’ll read it later. but I’m also wrong if I don’t respond. I go crazy form it but he’ll say I’m the crazy making one. But this is what I ended up apologizing for, after this he told me all sorts of things such as he doesn’t think we’ll work and that I’m a liar for breaking a promise, I don’t care. Etc. basically ready to leave me but just doesn’t, not before shitting on me all day. And the original thing I was upset about remained ignored all because of what I did.
Then after that is when the BJ thing happened, and what ensued after the messages in the post was me basically flipping out even worse on him through text. I couldn’t contain that. And all day he told me everything was my fault for starting it, bringing toxicity back into the relationship, and for texting him a lot of shit after what he said while at work. All day he told me it’s my fault and he abused me because I abused him first. But I abused for an hour versus him all day to me and much worse, and he counts me reacting to the BJ thing as abuse. It’s just my fault. I’m crazy I guess. He told me over and over again I’m wrong for thinking bc what he said was bad and for reacting the way I did to it. He told me all day that he called me with nothing but love and good intentions and I decided to ruin his whole day and the relationship. I’m not saying I’m perfect. I’ve fucked up plenty of times and if I delve into our past it’s too much.
Edit. I don’t know if what I didn’t even counts as abuse but I just tell him ok yeah I abused to not fight about another thing
Not in anyway a dig, but maybe she could get a psych evaluation in case she has anxiety or something else
Could be the case as it doesn’t make sense that something outside of her control bothers her so much
So…why are you with him again? This is the ultimate in being a lazy jackass. Why would you put up with this for even a second?