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Valid feelings.
Now ask yourself if you are willing to not see your daughter, adopted son who will most likely be marrying your daughter, and any kids their union produces? Talk to them. Be honest but for the love of Christ please make not as long as this posting of yours. The most important thing for you to do is LISTEN. Speak less than you want and let them talk.
Be open minded. Be sure to express your hurt but don’t crucify them for it. Remember love is a treasure. Not a curse.
What I’d like to know is why didn’t the fiancé just ask her what was going on instead of listen to his friends and jump to conclusions. If she marries him, is he going to listen to his friends every time something happens instead of going to his partner?
Save the messages so you have them personally for reference so he can't gaslight you when you do confront him.
Take the day and do things to take care of yourself. Maybe this means going out, getting a manipedi, getting a nice meal, or just crying somewhere.
Then go get a STD test.
You need to figure out what you want to do after that. Definitely confront him, but what do you want for yourself. I personally recommend not buying a house with him and leaving him. But this is up to you. But it's important to get all of the information. The what ifs and imagining can drive a person crazy.
I also personally advise starting therapy if you haven't already. Being cheated on can really have a major trauma response in a person. It will help to go.
Also, the survivinginfidelity subreddit really helped me personally. I advise going there.
Are you going out with them every weekend instead of hanging out with your partner? Stop projecting your situation into OPs. Read their comments. Her husband was trying to cheat on her.
It’s kinda controlling. How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you to wear a top over your bikini if there was a guy who was interested in you present?
Your boyfriend saying no should be enough, if she continues that’s literally harassment and his other friends should be speaking up and telling her to fuck off.
It’s not ok for a man to do it to a woman, and it’s not ok for a woman to do it to a man.
Same. At some point, if they’re not doing it any longer, then their punishment for cheating should be having to hold the guilt and keep the secret well.
First off, she needs to watch herself drunk, so maybe don't encourage the drinking. I'd also talk with her when she's sober and tell her you think it is important she is careful who she tells that to. Unfortunately, at 94 some dementia (looking back and talking about the past with lowered inhibitions) can also be at play.
I would not bring it up to your father. It's his trauma and he has the right to disclose it to people when and if he wants, and he likely doesn't want to. One thing spending a chunk of your life drunk can do is muddy memories up. This is probably one he has no interest in revisiting with you.
Sorry you had to learn this. The best thing you can do with the information is allow yourself to have compassion for who your dad was when he was a kid, and then leave it at that.
Yes, you are a terrible person. Yes, tell the wife. Your apologies will be meaningless to her because you are not actually sorry for your actions – only that your bad decisions affected your own life, but you should still tell her.
Valid feelings.
Now ask yourself if you are willing to not see your daughter, adopted son who will most likely be marrying your daughter, and any kids their union produces? Talk to them. Be honest but for the love of Christ please make not as long as this posting of yours. The most important thing for you to do is LISTEN. Speak less than you want and let them talk.
Be open minded. Be sure to express your hurt but don’t crucify them for it. Remember love is a treasure. Not a curse.
What I’d like to know is why didn’t the fiancé just ask her what was going on instead of listen to his friends and jump to conclusions. If she marries him, is he going to listen to his friends every time something happens instead of going to his partner?
Save the messages so you have them personally for reference so he can't gaslight you when you do confront him.
Take the day and do things to take care of yourself. Maybe this means going out, getting a manipedi, getting a nice meal, or just crying somewhere.
Then go get a STD test.
You need to figure out what you want to do after that. Definitely confront him, but what do you want for yourself. I personally recommend not buying a house with him and leaving him. But this is up to you. But it's important to get all of the information. The what ifs and imagining can drive a person crazy.
I also personally advise starting therapy if you haven't already. Being cheated on can really have a major trauma response in a person. It will help to go.
Also, the survivinginfidelity subreddit really helped me personally. I advise going there.
Are you going out with them every weekend instead of hanging out with your partner? Stop projecting your situation into OPs. Read their comments. Her husband was trying to cheat on her.
It’s kinda controlling. How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you to wear a top over your bikini if there was a guy who was interested in you present?
Your boyfriend saying no should be enough, if she continues that’s literally harassment and his other friends should be speaking up and telling her to fuck off.
It’s not ok for a man to do it to a woman, and it’s not ok for a woman to do it to a man.
Totally agree
Same. At some point, if they’re not doing it any longer, then their punishment for cheating should be having to hold the guilt and keep the secret well.
First off, she needs to watch herself drunk, so maybe don't encourage the drinking. I'd also talk with her when she's sober and tell her you think it is important she is careful who she tells that to. Unfortunately, at 94 some dementia (looking back and talking about the past with lowered inhibitions) can also be at play.
I would not bring it up to your father. It's his trauma and he has the right to disclose it to people when and if he wants, and he likely doesn't want to. One thing spending a chunk of your life drunk can do is muddy memories up. This is probably one he has no interest in revisiting with you.
Sorry you had to learn this. The best thing you can do with the information is allow yourself to have compassion for who your dad was when he was a kid, and then leave it at that.
Yes, you are a terrible person. Yes, tell the wife. Your apologies will be meaningless to her because you are not actually sorry for your actions – only that your bad decisions affected your own life, but you should still tell her.
He already knows