I do agree with you, that thinking about marriage this soon is a stretch, but I mentioned that just to make it clear that we're dating for the long term, but due to her fear and anxiety, she might end it soon, even though she herself has said that it's not something that she wants. Just wanted advice on how to go about things
Shit partner
It's treading another humans most effing basic rights with ones feet.
On the grounds of being married!
OP… what he says is that YOU ARE HIS SLAVE, because you married him.
Hadn't you, it were rape.
Now that you did… hands clean. (HIS saying!)
THIS IS HOW RAPISTS JUSTIFY THEIR DOING!
It's lying to you and gaslighting you into submission!
I do agree with you, that thinking about marriage this soon is a stretch, but I mentioned that just to make it clear that we're dating for the long term, but due to her fear and anxiety, she might end it soon, even though she herself has said that it's not something that she wants. Just wanted advice on how to go about things
Focus on the part where he cheats on his wife, she probabky thinks she is the love of his life. That PoS is not worth it
Yeah I guess thatโs a good way to look at it. Iโll have to figure out how to bring it up then.
Congratulations, you're awesome! Bf is acting like a loser I'm sorry ๐