I don’t think I’m a bad roommate… we’ve lived together for 3 years and I haven’t heard a single thing ??‍♀️ we usually have a ton of fun together, I’ll cook her food, she’ll cook me food, I do her dishes before she gets home from work, and she’ll do the same… we both take out trash equally, clean bathroom etc etc so idk. (Also I used to vacuum and mop our entire 4 level townhouse every other Sunday for 2.5 years, but I recently stopped because I’ve been working 60-70 hours a week since July, hence why I’m moving closer to work)
Also, I do believe my ex because my roommate talks shit about everyone (her boyfriend of 4 years saying they don’t have a future she’s just having fun, her family, her other friends, etc ) I’m her best friend, so I though she was confiding in me, but at the same time I’ve accepted that she’s gunna talk about me because that’s just who she is and what she does. I’m just hurt at what she actually said and how she lied to me about moving plans.
Lastly, That’s what I meant by confronting. I agree ghosting is immature, but I wasn’t even sure if I wanted to sit down and have a conversation to give her a chance to explain herself because she makes up great excuses like “I might’ve told him I plan on moving eventually like IN THE NEXT FIVE YEARS but not any time soon?!? He totally took it out of context and twisted my words saying I don’t want to online with you ever again” kind of thing… or she can be extremely dismissive at times.
Grow a backbone and dump her like the trash she is. She’ll cheat on you again any time she travels and won’t even tell you about it because she knows you’ll stay
I wish I could say it was different, but I have a pretty good idea of what he’s going through. Kind of why I needed to finally post. I guess I’m looking for permission more than advice. Which is stupid. But the whole situation is difficult and making me second guess every life decision I’ve ever made to this point. ?
Get tested. Just to be on the safe side.
I don’t think I’m a bad roommate… we’ve lived together for 3 years and I haven’t heard a single thing ??‍♀️ we usually have a ton of fun together, I’ll cook her food, she’ll cook me food, I do her dishes before she gets home from work, and she’ll do the same… we both take out trash equally, clean bathroom etc etc so idk. (Also I used to vacuum and mop our entire 4 level townhouse every other Sunday for 2.5 years, but I recently stopped because I’ve been working 60-70 hours a week since July, hence why I’m moving closer to work)
Also, I do believe my ex because my roommate talks shit about everyone (her boyfriend of 4 years saying they don’t have a future she’s just having fun, her family, her other friends, etc ) I’m her best friend, so I though she was confiding in me, but at the same time I’ve accepted that she’s gunna talk about me because that’s just who she is and what she does. I’m just hurt at what she actually said and how she lied to me about moving plans.
Lastly, That’s what I meant by confronting. I agree ghosting is immature, but I wasn’t even sure if I wanted to sit down and have a conversation to give her a chance to explain herself because she makes up great excuses like “I might’ve told him I plan on moving eventually like IN THE NEXT FIVE YEARS but not any time soon?!? He totally took it out of context and twisted my words saying I don’t want to online with you ever again” kind of thing… or she can be extremely dismissive at times.
If you don’t trust him break up. I wouldn’t have taken you back personally. You invaded his privacy and need to grow up.
Grow a backbone and dump her like the trash she is. She’ll cheat on you again any time she travels and won’t even tell you about it because she knows you’ll stay
If I did that I'd be fired. I work on a secure environment, lots of people do.
I wish I could say it was different, but I have a pretty good idea of what he’s going through. Kind of why I needed to finally post. I guess I’m looking for permission more than advice. Which is stupid. But the whole situation is difficult and making me second guess every life decision I’ve ever made to this point. ?