I think I’m worse. When I read ‘for feeding my (40F) cats’ at first I thought she had 40 female cats, then I thought, no, that can’t be right… It must be 40 feral cats. Took me a minute. I think I might be losing it.
Thanks for pointing out the bias, I'll keep that in mind. I agree it's all up to her, I'll just make sure to be supportive of any decision and encourage her to reach out to a therapist. Thank you.
Have you ever done couples counseling? Sounds like you mostly just need better communication skills in your toolbox
I think I’m worse. When I read ‘for feeding my (40F) cats’ at first I thought she had 40 female cats, then I thought, no, that can’t be right… It must be 40 feral cats. Took me a minute. I think I might be losing it.
Thanks for pointing out the bias, I'll keep that in mind. I agree it's all up to her, I'll just make sure to be supportive of any decision and encourage her to reach out to a therapist. Thank you.