You wanted this baby so badly that you’ve gone through IVF, not an easy thing. You’re far enough along that you know it’s a boy. Could you even mentally handle ending this pregnancy?? I don’t think I could. I’m sorry but your husband is being incredibly selfish. He had plenty of opportunities to express reservations and not go through with this. He needs to pull his head out of his ass. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
He’s not your problem, his sobriety and wellness are not your problem. You will never be able to help him if he doesn’t want it, which he clearly has no interest in, and worse he’s now dragging you down with him. Meth is not something to fuck around with, and you’d be far better off away from him.
You wanted this baby so badly that you’ve gone through IVF, not an easy thing. You’re far enough along that you know it’s a boy. Could you even mentally handle ending this pregnancy?? I don’t think I could. I’m sorry but your husband is being incredibly selfish. He had plenty of opportunities to express reservations and not go through with this. He needs to pull his head out of his ass. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
The correct place to park is “at a different dwelling, without this controlling, abusive dumbass.”
He’s not your problem, his sobriety and wellness are not your problem. You will never be able to help him if he doesn’t want it, which he clearly has no interest in, and worse he’s now dragging you down with him. Meth is not something to fuck around with, and you’d be far better off away from him.