She needs to work with a psychotherapist. Even if we could identify the root of her discomfort, we can't help her solve it. She needs a mental health professional.
Send HR a fucking email documenting each of these exchanges, and then forward that email and any responses to your personal offsite email. There needs to be a blatant, written record for your lawyer later. There is little chance this job is ever going to be a happy or healthy one for you (or any woman), but there’s a decent chance you might be able to walk with some kickass severance, a settlement, and/or impeccable references. If, on the other hand, you don’t start protecting yourself? These dickwads are going to drag your good name through the mud for shits and giggles, because that’s what shitheads on a power trip DO.
Thank you, ugh the betrayal is the worst part. I still love her, but I know it can never be the same and I can’t trust her. We had talked about getting married recently. Thinking about her lying so much just kills me.
Depression sucks, feeling alone sucks. It’s very hot to not blame yourself too, especially when you don’t really have a good reason for his decision. I’ve been so insecure since my breakup.
Anyway, I can imagine how you feel, it really really hurts. I’m going to echo the same cliche advice I’ve been getting from everyone… (results tbd lol) time supposedly helps, and there’s plenty of people out there for you. Stay busy and try to work on yourself. Don’t do anything crazy.
where does it say no judging
She needs to work with a psychotherapist. Even if we could identify the root of her discomfort, we can't help her solve it. She needs a mental health professional.
Send HR a fucking email documenting each of these exchanges, and then forward that email and any responses to your personal offsite email. There needs to be a blatant, written record for your lawyer later. There is little chance this job is ever going to be a happy or healthy one for you (or any woman), but there’s a decent chance you might be able to walk with some kickass severance, a settlement, and/or impeccable references. If, on the other hand, you don’t start protecting yourself? These dickwads are going to drag your good name through the mud for shits and giggles, because that’s what shitheads on a power trip DO.
Thank you, ugh the betrayal is the worst part. I still love her, but I know it can never be the same and I can’t trust her. We had talked about getting married recently. Thinking about her lying so much just kills me.
Depression sucks, feeling alone sucks. It’s very hot to not blame yourself too, especially when you don’t really have a good reason for his decision. I’ve been so insecure since my breakup.
Anyway, I can imagine how you feel, it really really hurts. I’m going to echo the same cliche advice I’ve been getting from everyone… (results tbd lol) time supposedly helps, and there’s plenty of people out there for you. Stay busy and try to work on yourself. Don’t do anything crazy.
I have that effect on people. ?