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She showed you what he really think and also use the money as a bait so you will be grateful and more prone to take him back, because he clearly is standing in his ground. You lie to yourself all you want but you already know what kind of person he is and what his views are. Just don't be surprised when he comes up with more shit in relation with LGBT, feminism, racism etc etc
If you aren't compatible now, you never will be. Any marriage based on changing the partner is a disaster. It never works. If the differences he pointed out were tiny, he wouldn't care, it sounds like an excuse.
Possibilities that come to mind:
He correctly realizes that you have very different priorities, and it isn't going to change. If you are from a very different culture, that can make those differences even more obvious. He doesn't really ever want to be married to anybody. He sees you as a “friend with benefits”, instead of as an intimate life partner. By “work on us”, he may mean “drag it out until you're gone, then look for somebody else”. He has a phobia of commitment (not just to you), and would be a terrible husband for anybody. He's being warned by family and/or friends that you're looking for a way to stay in the country, even thought they won't say it when you are present. I suspect this is the most likely. When you marry a person, you are basically marrying the entire family. If the family doesn't like you, you're in trouble. If his family isn't begging him to marry you, they're probably doing the opposite.
In my own case, I'm married to a foreigner. After learning the language, I met her in her country, and years later I went back, dated her, and married her. We have a large house in her country, where I will retire one day. My children were raised in both cultures, know both languages, and we all do lengthy stays in both countries.
If your boyfriend is serious about you, he will immediately look for how he could go see you in your country if you aren't able to get your visa, get his passport, and save money to fund the trip. If he isn't making those steps, he wasn't ever serious about you, you were just “friends with benefits”, in which case he was just your practice run before you find a man of higher quality who will be your husband. The best revenge against someone who wasted years of your time is to online a better life without them.
Regardless of what happens, I wish you the best of luck!
Info: What has been discussed with your wife? What are her boundaries? How does she feel about this?
I ask because you say “I don’t want sex with other people (at least not regularly).” So I think it’s important to know where she stands on that.
I wouldn’t call you an asshole for recognising that right now you might have an issue in terms of sexual compatibility, but if my husband ever pushed sleeping with other people because his “need” wasn’t met, I would call him one as I entered into what I believed to be a monogamous marriage. To me, that’s why your wife’s feelings regarding that are so important.