I’m plus size too and bigger than my partner as well, and I’ve struggled with these thoughts and insecurities too. I think you just need to be really aware of it and be sure not to project your insecurities and negative opinion of yourself onto him. Maybe also have a conversation about your insecurities and explain that some positive reassurance every now and then would be greatly appreciated
Stay friends with her. Don’t get back in a relationship. You’re in a rough place and getting back with her won’t magically fix everything in Your life. You will skip right over an important phase of life where you learn how to pull yourself up. Don’t use her as a crutch, figure it out on your own.
Plus, if you do get back with her, all you’ll think about is all the guys she tucked after breaking up with you, leading to a ton of resentment. Go your own way
Why on earth do (did?) you think you're ready to get married? As this sounds you may not even be ready for a relationship at the moment. Set this marriage on hold immediately! Also you should start therapy right now!
haha okay i hope so
I’m plus size too and bigger than my partner as well, and I’ve struggled with these thoughts and insecurities too. I think you just need to be really aware of it and be sure not to project your insecurities and negative opinion of yourself onto him. Maybe also have a conversation about your insecurities and explain that some positive reassurance every now and then would be greatly appreciated
How long have you two been together? Are you currently living together?
Stay friends with her. Don’t get back in a relationship. You’re in a rough place and getting back with her won’t magically fix everything in Your life. You will skip right over an important phase of life where you learn how to pull yourself up. Don’t use her as a crutch, figure it out on your own.
Plus, if you do get back with her, all you’ll think about is all the guys she tucked after breaking up with you, leading to a ton of resentment. Go your own way
Why on earth do (did?) you think you're ready to get married? As this sounds you may not even be ready for a relationship at the moment. Set this marriage on hold immediately! Also you should start therapy right now!
Just leave him alone. Like all the way alone. And find someone who is more compatible!