To take a step back from the mob of people who don't know your partner and are saying dump her and run over a few paragraphs for a second. What slhe is doing sounds like classic signs of mental health disorders or at least they could be. It may be worth trying to get him to see someone both therapy and psychiatry. The question of “who isn't depressed” is dangerous. Clinical depression can consume your life and everything you love, it can even kill you. Not everyone has that level of depression. It's worth trying to fix the issue rather than running from it if at all possible.
I bet you that both situations happen, and depending on location and the specific judge, both sides could, and absolutely are true, just not at the same time. Black and white thinking gets us nowhere.
You actually need Reddit to tell you to not spend your savings on a man who won't soend savings to even get you a ring? Fiance, I can see an argument if these are urgently needed repairs. Not for a boyfriend.
Because I don’t think it’s practical that he’ll be able to walk away. His other siblings are irresponsible and won’t step up. Once his parents fire their employees, they will rely on my husband to a degree that I’m afraid their business will depend on his labor. Then their failing business will fall directly on his shoulders. In the end, I think it’s be completely impractical for him to quit at that point.
Sure and the I’ll lie to my bf about finances so we can both be clowns.
To take a step back from the mob of people who don't know your partner and are saying dump her and run over a few paragraphs for a second. What slhe is doing sounds like classic signs of mental health disorders or at least they could be. It may be worth trying to get him to see someone both therapy and psychiatry. The question of “who isn't depressed” is dangerous. Clinical depression can consume your life and everything you love, it can even kill you. Not everyone has that level of depression. It's worth trying to fix the issue rather than running from it if at all possible.
I bet you that both situations happen, and depending on location and the specific judge, both sides could, and absolutely are true, just not at the same time. Black and white thinking gets us nowhere.
You actually need Reddit to tell you to not spend your savings on a man who won't soend savings to even get you a ring? Fiance, I can see an argument if these are urgently needed repairs. Not for a boyfriend.
Because I don’t think it’s practical that he’ll be able to walk away. His other siblings are irresponsible and won’t step up. Once his parents fire their employees, they will rely on my husband to a degree that I’m afraid their business will depend on his labor. Then their failing business will fall directly on his shoulders. In the end, I think it’s be completely impractical for him to quit at that point.
Thank you for the thoughtful response. Ill try to bring it up again and see how it goes. I hope you have a nice day