Legally she doesn’t have that ability. As the other person noted, you could limit over night guests but you can’t do anything about who they are around when you have 50/50 custody.
You're just going to be stuck in this loop of him doing selfish things and making you feel bad, you demanding respect and hoping he makes the right decision, him making a selfish decision anyway because he knows you won't leave, and then you forgiving him because you're hurt by his selfishness and can't face the pain of a break up. Each time it will get harder to break up because doing this is corrosive to your self esteem.
The trick to having a loving and respectful relationship is not wasting your time on people who don't love and respect you. You should have left him the second he decided to keep this woman in his life despute how she treated you. He doesn't have your back and he doesn't care about how you feel. Stop chasing respect and hoping he will change, and deal with the reality of the person he is. Yes it will be hard and you will feel sad but you'll get over it and can then find someone better.
ill take ur advice w a heavy heart. thank u
Legally she doesn’t have that ability. As the other person noted, you could limit over night guests but you can’t do anything about who they are around when you have 50/50 custody.
He started dating a 15yo when he was 19? That age gap is wrong to me.
Sounds like your relationship is done anyway. If he's not already cheating on you, he's trying to.
Save yourself the heartache and walk away now.
Get tested.
Or OPs girlfriend has no idea how pregnancy works
its just ill use every option i have besides divorce to fix the problem….
Outline those for us.
Wtf??why
Either you “open up” your marriage or it's over. This is your only choice now.
You're just going to be stuck in this loop of him doing selfish things and making you feel bad, you demanding respect and hoping he makes the right decision, him making a selfish decision anyway because he knows you won't leave, and then you forgiving him because you're hurt by his selfishness and can't face the pain of a break up. Each time it will get harder to break up because doing this is corrosive to your self esteem.
The trick to having a loving and respectful relationship is not wasting your time on people who don't love and respect you. You should have left him the second he decided to keep this woman in his life despute how she treated you. He doesn't have your back and he doesn't care about how you feel. Stop chasing respect and hoping he will change, and deal with the reality of the person he is. Yes it will be hard and you will feel sad but you'll get over it and can then find someone better.
Call your family. Call your friends. Tell them that you need to come home, and you need their support to make it happen.