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I donāt know if this will help, but:
My mom and dad had the original turbulent relationship. Iām the reason they got marriedā¦accidental conceptionā¦two people trapped who might have made it but they were also surrounded by family that werenāt pulling for them; just a mĆ©salliance all the way around.
They fought like they had stilettos attached to their vocal cords. I broke up one physical altercation when I was three, four years old? By punching my dadās knees. I adored him. I adored her. Iām almost sixty and theyāre both gone at least a decade and Iām haunted, still.
But hereās the thing. They were both very attractive, beautiful people who werenāt happy unless they were perfect and they knew that about each other. Theyād use it as a weapon to hurt or a weapon for something else.
Dad used to go to this one strip club with his friends and always talked about this one stripper whoād come from the same ethnic neighborhood (Yugoslav). He did it to aggravate my mom, who turned around and became tauter and tauter, back to her hourglass self, and then withheld herself from him out of not knowing what was going on, fear of stds, bitterness from fightsā¦
They divorced. She mentioned the strip club.
āThat?ā he said.
āI know we fought and screamed. But I never had the thought or desire to be unfaithful to you, and I never have been. Oh sure, that same girl always plops herself on my lap, and I knew you hated hearing about that, and you hurt me so I wanted to hurt you, so I always went on and on about her. But sheās just overblown, next to you.ā
āI never cheated on you.ā
That turned out to be true. Too little, too late.
In your situation: The money is frustrating and outrageous. Iām not familiar with strip clubs back then or now, but I imagine that thereās some ease about dropping money there. Thatās one reason I wish credit/debit cards werenāt so easily accepted everywhere.
At least with folding money: When the cash was gone, it was gone.
u/MagicCarpet5846 makes some good points.
Iām wondering if he got into the good old boys one-up situation and then shots and beers happened and then he got stuck with the credit card slip and no idea what to say to you, his beloved wife and lover, while his buddies, true friends (/s) that they were, stuck him with all the bill of a place it might not have even been his idea to go to. Donāt get me wrong. Iām not saying that guys donāt do stupid, selfish cruel things, and lord knows enough of them cheat.
But every case is different, and itās not up to Reddit to decide what to do here, itās up to you.
Believe you me, I donāt believe in women being doormats.
I noticed my dadās attacking hands and feet slowed down after my mom tapped him on the head with her cast iron frying pan.
I myself moved right out after one early boyfriend tried backhanding me. One time. No second chance for him.
But these are different circumstances.
Take a breath and step back. Maybe write a letter with all your anger first. Burn that one.
Then write a structured āI just need to know how weāre going to make this Christmas beautiful for the kids; weāve stuff to discuss, but it can keep, because weāre not going to let this money output affect the kids; I assume that you have a line of credit ready to replace the money, right?ā
And then fold your hands in your lap and look calm and certain that heās already thought of a way to āfix it.ā
Thatās the most devastating thing you can do.
Good luck and best wishes, my dear.
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If itās not a fuck yes, itās a fuck no.
I probably sort of know how ya feel as far as your wife not being in the picture bec maybe it takes away from the fun or what you can and canāt do without knowing it will bother her. I enjoy not being around my husband 24/7. I couldnāt imagine or want it to be for an extended period of time. I think if you continue to go down this route you will see no need with being with her and thatās selfish. Sometimes being in a long term relationship will do that to you where you realize you can be happy by yourself.
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Congratulations on being able to leave! It's not easy but you did it!
My man, you can get engaged and spend years as an engaged couple without getting married. I'd pop the question, but wait until the baby is older to actually get married if that's how you feel.
She surely will be delighted about a āside chickā.
Oh dang I didnt know there was a book on this stuff. Thats good to know thank you
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Just kick him out. You seem very aware that this is a terrible relationship, and yet you are completely unwilling to even contemplate the obvious next step, which is to end it.
Let me list out all the horrible things this man has done to you:
Youāve had a āstrained bedroomā for a while, at least in part because sex is painful for you. He knows that sex causes you pain, and instead of trying to help you with solutions for this problem (hey letās take things slow, explore our bodies, do something other than penetration, seek a sex therapist, etc), he has continued to push for penetrative sex with the full knowledge that itās physically difficult for you, and obviously will be for a while once the baby is born. Gave an ultimatum about the sex. Scummy for a number of reasons, including the fact that you were pregnant with his child at the time, and again, that heās essentially telling you to put out or get out. yells at you during arguments. Arguments are normal, yelling is not. Especially if itās constant. Just how much does this man yell? Does he yell at the baby too? LIED ABOUT WANTING TO HAVE A CHILD, A WHOLE HUMAN WHOSE LIFE HEāLL HAVE DIRECT IMPACT ON, then when the child did arrive, he treats her like sheās a pest. How would you feel if you saw someone on the street addressing a baby the way he addresses her? Scum. emotionally abuses and gaslights you, as per your own words. has potential untreated PTSD, which is irresponsible, and makes him a delight to be around, Iām sure.
Iām sorry to be harsh, but heās told you already heās out the door the moment he can, unless he can get rid of a child that he helped create. Again, I donāt know how to make it more clear that this is the lowest of the low a person can be. He didnāt even abandon you two, instead heās trying to trade her out like sheās an unwanted pet. Heās not just a coward, heās an active manipulator with no limits.
From your words, it seems to me like marriage was already on the rocks to some degree before the pregnancy. You mention bedroom issues and yelling, two things I think predate the pregnancy. I donāt think your marriage was as rosy as you tell yourself that it was, but itās now come to a head, and itās time to leave. Kick this man out. Gouge his eyes out metaphorically in court. I have to wonder why his custody battle escalated. Is he involved in the other kidās life? I wonder if he pulls controlling moves with his previous family too.
This isnāt your fault, but itās time to leave. Stop asking if heāll show up. He wonāt. Heās not going to suddenly become respectful, and even if he did, that wouldnāt make the previous disrespect okay. He has destroyed the relationship. Itās over. Get a therapist, a nanny, and a lawyer, in that order. And leave. Not wanting to be alone is not a good enough reason to stay in this hell.
I know Iām just one anecdote, but my now husband and I used condoms, then the pill, then hormonal IUD for 11 years without a single scare. I had my IUD removed in December because we wanted to start trying and I got pregnant in February.
Your bf does sound really responsible, which is amazing and youāre lucky that he is being cautious about accidental pregnancy. Normally you hear about guys pressuring women into unprotected sex because it āfeels betterā, so he sounds like a winner compared to that. He does sound overzealous though, and I understand your frustration with not getting the kind of intimacy you desire and also being stuck giving lengthy BJs.
Could you look into getting an IUD or an implant? Maybe if itās something that you literally canāt forget to take (which can happen with the pill) he might feel more at ease.