6 thoughts on “MilaConnors online sex chats for YOU!”
Are you sure though?
I think that you may be either insincere or lacking in self awareness here.
How is your wanting to take the kid to this thing that may not be age appropriate, being a good person? How is it raising them to be?
If they don't have the maturity to really know what they are seeing and how it fits into a healthy balanced life, is it going to help them? Or might they get the wrong idea?
Is your taking them and making such a production about this demonstrating healthy adult relationships, communication and boundaries? Or is it demonstrating appearances and conformity to ideology taking priority over family?
Here is a question for you. This is for you, it isn't really about us or anything. But for you to consider.
If in 5-10 years it turns out he is a purely het-cis masculine man, only (for his personal romantic/ sexual relationships) interested in middle weight or lighter cis-women and strictly monogamous… how will you feel? Be brutally honest with yourself.
What she does isn’t important. Either you trust you boyfriend not to flirt back or hook up with her, or you don’t.
Why would it matter what her “motives” are? Socializing with coworkers in a group setting is not inappropriate, and (again) if you trust your boyfriend, why is it a problem for him to be in a social setting with colleagues just because one of them has an unreciprocated crush on him?
The fact that it makes you “uncomfortable” doesn’t automatically mean something must be “done” here. Instead of trying to micromanage his interactions with colleagues, you could reflect on why you’re so uncomfortable with the idea that someone he works with is crushing on him. Perhaps you don’t trust him completely? Perhaps you have some doubts or insecurities that are coming out?
There is no single definitive answer to this question, partly because we use the word “love” to describe everything from family relationships to close friendship to sexual partner attachment to our favorite ice cream flavors (I LOVE mint Oreo). My advice is to try to worry a whole lot less about the specific syllables or letters you use to describe your relationship and focus on whether you and your partner's needs are beong met, whether you get along well, whether you're happy, etc. It's the actual facts of your relatjonship in reality that we attempt to describe with the word “love” that matter, not the word itself (which we can simply demonstrate by pointing out that we can describe the same thing in different languages). When people say semantics don't really matter, this is what they're talking about (or they're wrong, in cases where the semantics actually do matter despite the assertion to the contrary).
Stick with the therapy, stick with the relationship as long as it's bringing more good into your life than bad, keep the good communication with your partner going, and try not to worry about saying specific words to each other.
I think you are being far too gracious here but I understand what you are saying. I am fully aware I knew I was having an affair with a married man for several years, whether or not he was single when we got together. While I agree his crime is greater, mine is still awful.
…why'd someone comment and then block me? I can see the comment notification but it won't bring it up lol To reply to user CanRough3900. I wouldn't care if he literally talked about his game on the phone I'm just lonely lol he doesn't have to focus on me just being present would be enough.
Are you sure though?
I think that you may be either insincere or lacking in self awareness here.
How is your wanting to take the kid to this thing that may not be age appropriate, being a good person? How is it raising them to be?
If they don't have the maturity to really know what they are seeing and how it fits into a healthy balanced life, is it going to help them? Or might they get the wrong idea?
Is your taking them and making such a production about this demonstrating healthy adult relationships, communication and boundaries? Or is it demonstrating appearances and conformity to ideology taking priority over family?
Here is a question for you. This is for you, it isn't really about us or anything. But for you to consider.
If in 5-10 years it turns out he is a purely het-cis masculine man, only (for his personal romantic/ sexual relationships) interested in middle weight or lighter cis-women and strictly monogamous… how will you feel? Be brutally honest with yourself.
What she does isn’t important. Either you trust you boyfriend not to flirt back or hook up with her, or you don’t.
Why would it matter what her “motives” are? Socializing with coworkers in a group setting is not inappropriate, and (again) if you trust your boyfriend, why is it a problem for him to be in a social setting with colleagues just because one of them has an unreciprocated crush on him?
The fact that it makes you “uncomfortable” doesn’t automatically mean something must be “done” here. Instead of trying to micromanage his interactions with colleagues, you could reflect on why you’re so uncomfortable with the idea that someone he works with is crushing on him. Perhaps you don’t trust him completely? Perhaps you have some doubts or insecurities that are coming out?
Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.
There is no single definitive answer to this question, partly because we use the word “love” to describe everything from family relationships to close friendship to sexual partner attachment to our favorite ice cream flavors (I LOVE mint Oreo). My advice is to try to worry a whole lot less about the specific syllables or letters you use to describe your relationship and focus on whether you and your partner's needs are beong met, whether you get along well, whether you're happy, etc. It's the actual facts of your relatjonship in reality that we attempt to describe with the word “love” that matter, not the word itself (which we can simply demonstrate by pointing out that we can describe the same thing in different languages). When people say semantics don't really matter, this is what they're talking about (or they're wrong, in cases where the semantics actually do matter despite the assertion to the contrary).
Stick with the therapy, stick with the relationship as long as it's bringing more good into your life than bad, keep the good communication with your partner going, and try not to worry about saying specific words to each other.
Thank you! I hope you have a great day as well. 🙂
I think you are being far too gracious here but I understand what you are saying. I am fully aware I knew I was having an affair with a married man for several years, whether or not he was single when we got together. While I agree his crime is greater, mine is still awful.
…why'd someone comment and then block me? I can see the comment notification but it won't bring it up lol To reply to user CanRough3900. I wouldn't care if he literally talked about his game on the phone I'm just lonely lol he doesn't have to focus on me just being present would be enough.