Look, I’m all for role playing. Sometimes I agree to being someone who doesn’t really “do it” for me, but it’s ok because so does my husband when I’m the one choosing. Mostly, we imagine scenarios we both enjoy, and it can be a lot of fun.
There are nude limits though. People we know are one of them. It can be very hurtful to imagine your SO/play partner is so attracted to someone in your day-to-day life. Personally, it would make me very insecure around that person and my SO. Ask your boyfriend what he would feel like if you were picturing one of his friends, or brother or dad or cousin while you were having sex with him. Of course we’re attracted to other people from time to time, but our emotional boundaries AND our partners’ emotional boundaries should always be respected if we want to have healthy and safe and adventurous sex. Communication is key, also from your side. Express your discomfort, find alternatives. If you don’t, the hurt will only grow and you’ll eventually resent your partner so much and that’ll be the end of this relationship.
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Don't blame the victim. Get a lawyer and leave your cheating, rapist husband.
Do you really think that if he was willing to rape your sister on the floor of a house party (at your ages too, what the fuck?!) that this was the first time he cheated??
Cut her off!! You well know what she is trying to do, she should no longer be your friend
Look, I’m all for role playing. Sometimes I agree to being someone who doesn’t really “do it” for me, but it’s ok because so does my husband when I’m the one choosing. Mostly, we imagine scenarios we both enjoy, and it can be a lot of fun.
There are nude limits though. People we know are one of them. It can be very hurtful to imagine your SO/play partner is so attracted to someone in your day-to-day life. Personally, it would make me very insecure around that person and my SO. Ask your boyfriend what he would feel like if you were picturing one of his friends, or brother or dad or cousin while you were having sex with him. Of course we’re attracted to other people from time to time, but our emotional boundaries AND our partners’ emotional boundaries should always be respected if we want to have healthy and safe and adventurous sex. Communication is key, also from your side. Express your discomfort, find alternatives. If you don’t, the hurt will only grow and you’ll eventually resent your partner so much and that’ll be the end of this relationship.
And she is only 22!
I ended up a little bit tipsy and woke up the moment he was finished because the alcohol put me in a deep sleep
OP…. this is rape. No way to argue against it. SVU…Olivia….Stabler….Velasquez….where yall at!!???
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You’re daughter has every right to feel some type of way- however she is 25 years old and has to grow up and take care of herself. You are not going to be around forever to do everything for her. She is going to have to save, Budget, maybe even take out a loan or something for emergencies and pay it back. You two have to talk to each other. She is 25 with all these problems tell her to add a kid in the mix and see where the real issues lie.
YOUR. HUSBAND. RAPED. YOUR. SISTER.
Don't blame the victim. Get a lawyer and leave your cheating, rapist husband.
Do you really think that if he was willing to rape your sister on the floor of a house party (at your ages too, what the fuck?!) that this was the first time he cheated??
Wake up OP.
You must not have children.
Don’t you know only child’s are weird, it’s best to have 2
Dump her, and then she will have all the space.