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Thanks for this. It's just that it started with regular FWB things (as in, genuinely friends-WB situation, not a random booty call situationship) that gradually escalated without me (us?) noticing. I don't think I ever sat down to think what's happening and where is it going. Once my sister called, my primary concern was wellbeing of my kid.
I understand why you say that, but I think it does play a roll. I pay for a slight majority in mortgage each month as well as all appliances, things that need fixed (plumbing issues, etc), pots/pans, all of that.
So with that, as well as it being my home, I feel that I can have someone over when I want
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Thanks for this. It's just that it started with regular FWB things (as in, genuinely friends-WB situation, not a random booty call situationship) that gradually escalated without me (us?) noticing. I don't think I ever sat down to think what's happening and where is it going. Once my sister called, my primary concern was wellbeing of my kid.
Creepy. Run for the hills.
He made you feel secure, lured you in and now that he thinks he kind of “has you secured” he shows his real face.
Go someplace for protection.
Withdraw all YOUR money first.
And then cut ties.
He sounds like a controlling person. And it feels like the more you talk, the more you will be gasslighted and trapped.
I understand why you say that, but I think it does play a roll. I pay for a slight majority in mortgage each month as well as all appliances, things that need fixed (plumbing issues, etc), pots/pans, all of that.
So with that, as well as it being my home, I feel that I can have someone over when I want
yeah i'm planning on telling her just bc of the way she said and stuff and it'll probably come up sooner or later anyways
If you don’t like it now then he’s a bad fit and it won’t get better.
You’re still not getting it. She DID bring it up. Cut the bs