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Um, a lot of the replies so far seem a little extreme.
It sounds like you've had your focus on other things most of your life. Academics, hobbies, etc. and are simply late to the dating world. That's completely fine.
Put yourself out there, join a club, do group activities, and so on. Flirt. Even if you suck at flirting, someone will love that about you.
You're not going to die alone. Breathe, try new things and have fun with it.
Basically, wife material is a person's definition of what a wife is. It's different for each person. In other words you wasn't compatible with that guy. It doesn't mean you wont find someone.
Guess what I have close friends and I don’t give af if they see me naked because Im comfortable in myself, and I trust them not to find it sexual. Your personal experience does not dictate the rules for others.
Kindly, how are you taking care of you? Solely from your OP, you sound stressed, anxious, confused, and depressed. What self care are you indulging in?
I feel for your gf; I can’t imagine how tough it is to be unable to be who one truly is. But she is taking out her frustrations on you, and leaning on you alone. As you wrote, her negativity is making you both miserable.
I truly hope you are in or are seeking therapy. You are bearing a huge mental load in providing care for your adult gf. When is the last time you did something that brought you joy?
I urge you to read what you’ve written here and think about what advice you would give as if this were written by someone else. You are setting yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. With regard to your anxiety, your OP reads as if your gf is contributing to your anxiety. If your only escape is to look for an apartment for only yourself, that speaks volumes.
No one can tell you what to do. If you leave and she spirals down, you will feel guilty. If you stay you will continue to be unhappy. What if you leave and nothing happens? What if you leave and that’s the push for her to seek professional help? You can’t know what will happen. You also should not feel guilty for taking care of yourself.
Please, get therapy. Have a professional guide you. Have a professional help you with your anxiety. Have a professional provide you support.
I know, it’s just dumb because as recently as a couple of months ago I was like “wow I’m so secure in my relationship I’ve really got on top of my insecurities” but it always pops back up, even after so many years! I have issues with my parents that translate to issues with all my relationships (have had a lot of therapy) and it’s constant work sometimes even when I feel mentally well. That’s why I post these stupid questions on Reddit alt accounts instead of saying them out loud!!
You sound very insecure. Has your BF ever cheated on you before? Following people you find attractive on social media is very common and normal, is he sending messages to these people or something?
You should probably work on your insecurities and if the following attractive people thing is a deal breaker for you, you should lay that out to anyone in the future you see yourself getting into a relationship with from now on so you're on the same page.
Um, a lot of the replies so far seem a little extreme.
It sounds like you've had your focus on other things most of your life. Academics, hobbies, etc. and are simply late to the dating world. That's completely fine.
Put yourself out there, join a club, do group activities, and so on. Flirt. Even if you suck at flirting, someone will love that about you.
You're not going to die alone. Breathe, try new things and have fun with it.
Tbf she did literally apologise that she took so long to reply, idk if that's good or bad
Basically, wife material is a person's definition of what a wife is. It's different for each person. In other words you wasn't compatible with that guy. It doesn't mean you wont find someone.
Just be yourself and you will find someone .
I really don't know what to do in this situation
I called the animal shelter and told them not to let her adopt them back.
Your gf showed he true colors. I say MOVE OUT. STAY THE F-AWAY FROM HER.
She sounds too mentally unstable ?
Don't let that kitty die in vain. GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP. GET OUT OF THE APARTMENT. BLOCK HER EVERYWHERE.
But please get therapy. You need to understand why on earth you got attracted to an unstable woman.
Guess what I have close friends and I don’t give af if they see me naked because Im comfortable in myself, and I trust them not to find it sexual. Your personal experience does not dictate the rules for others.
What’s an online brother?
I will do that and thank you. I just want them to be safe. What I heard was definitely not safe.
Maybe he should grow a fucking spine
As a dad, thank you for putting yourself first and protecting yourself from that walking red flag.
Kindly, how are you taking care of you? Solely from your OP, you sound stressed, anxious, confused, and depressed. What self care are you indulging in?
I feel for your gf; I can’t imagine how tough it is to be unable to be who one truly is. But she is taking out her frustrations on you, and leaning on you alone. As you wrote, her negativity is making you both miserable.
I truly hope you are in or are seeking therapy. You are bearing a huge mental load in providing care for your adult gf. When is the last time you did something that brought you joy?
I urge you to read what you’ve written here and think about what advice you would give as if this were written by someone else. You are setting yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. With regard to your anxiety, your OP reads as if your gf is contributing to your anxiety. If your only escape is to look for an apartment for only yourself, that speaks volumes.
No one can tell you what to do. If you leave and she spirals down, you will feel guilty. If you stay you will continue to be unhappy. What if you leave and nothing happens? What if you leave and that’s the push for her to seek professional help? You can’t know what will happen. You also should not feel guilty for taking care of yourself.
Please, get therapy. Have a professional guide you. Have a professional help you with your anxiety. Have a professional provide you support.
I know, it’s just dumb because as recently as a couple of months ago I was like “wow I’m so secure in my relationship I’ve really got on top of my insecurities” but it always pops back up, even after so many years! I have issues with my parents that translate to issues with all my relationships (have had a lot of therapy) and it’s constant work sometimes even when I feel mentally well. That’s why I post these stupid questions on Reddit alt accounts instead of saying them out loud!!
You sound very insecure. Has your BF ever cheated on you before? Following people you find attractive on social media is very common and normal, is he sending messages to these people or something?
You should probably work on your insecurities and if the following attractive people thing is a deal breaker for you, you should lay that out to anyone in the future you see yourself getting into a relationship with from now on so you're on the same page.