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At least she was honest and didn't lie about her past. And get blindsided when your married for 10 years and have 2 kids.
He’s still an adult, and needs to work on not doing this. Impulse control is a thing-he needs it.
Cassidy is my gf. Sally is her friend. I'm not upset that Sally doesn't like me. Yeah, it sucks. But I feel it is justified. However, I feel like as a friend, she should be supportive of Cassidy even though she doesn't like me. Sally being shitty towards me gives Cassidy anxiety.
I would have less of a problem that Alan is there if I was invited. Cassidy stated one of the reasons she doesn't want me there is bc she doesn't want to make Alan uncomfortable by me being there. It also seems that even tho Cassidy and Alan are no longer together, they all want to keep their friend group together. If Alan gets a gf, she is welcome to join in on game night bc Cassidy has stated it wouldn't bother her. Cassidy can't do the same though.
I don't want their friendship to end. Even if I hated Sally with everything inside of me, I know Cassidy cares about her and looks at her as a sister and I would never want her to lose her. I just want things to be smoothed out between me and Sally. But even if they were, there is still the situation with Alan feeling uncomfortable.
I wasn't trying to justify the things I said to her. I was trying to give backstory. Regardless of what she was doing, I was still wrong by saying the things I said.
It just sounds like you've drifted apart and have different expectations
You're barely talking and not being intimate. You've told him how you feel and he's done nothing
This can happen after 5 years together, especially at such a young age. It's just run it's course
Start looking into alternative accommodation before you make any decisions but I would end this before you relocate
And please, stop making excuses for him.
To add to my post, she is an amazing woman. She works harder than any other woman I've met, she's gorgeous, she's great in bed, and when she isn't upset, she has a heart of gold. I just want us both to be happy, and was thinking things can be better if we have some time to miss each other and think on whether or not we should be together.
I appreciate the time you took to draw that comparison, and in that way I can certainly see why that would be very uncomfortable. My thought was was the major struggle OP and by extension most others were having was the concept of enjoying the idea of variety in and off itself and condemning OP's partner for finding other people attractive IN GENERAL. That he was wrong to have any person in mind for a threesome when a threesome requires another person anyway. I neglected to take that potential perspective into account.
As another comment had also pointed out there was also the possibility that if OP were open to the idea of a threesome that she might only be comfortable with someone she knows, like a friend. That was sort of where my mind was at, that if you're going to have a threesome it makes more sense for it to be with a friend not less. But different friendships are viewed differently and have different boundaries, so I can see the context of a friendship that feels familial being uncomfortable knowing your partner has an attraction even if they aren't going to act on it.
My own perspective also colored my opinion admittedly. See to me the idea of sex as a purely physical act with another person is little more than masturbating with their body, so having a threesome with no emotional content seems either kind of absurd or inconsiderate. The third person is still a person, and you'd ideally want to make that person feel good. Compliment them, enjoy their presence, make them feel aroused and sexy, show them as good a time as they show you. And while boundaries are reasonable some can be overly restrictive and treat the third person almost like a threat to the primary two's relationship if they overstep.
In that way finding a random stranger as a third person, not getting to know them as a person at ALL, not indulging them in feeling relaxed and sexy during play, and then just never seeing them again sounds hilariously unsexy to me. You may as well have picked up a blow up doll. (sex robots are gonna make things interesting if and when they become commonplace)
So in that way it makes a bit more sense to me that OP's bf might fantasize about someone he knows rather than passionless restrictive sex with a stranger he doesn't care about, but when viewed from the lens of that friend having what's akin to a familial relationship I can see why that would be uncomfortable. You can't stop others or yourself from finding who you find attractive, but this example does make the distinction clearer to me.
Thanks for that!