Your husband should know better than to go into business with this “man” that acts like a 2 year old. He needs to grow up and your husbands thinking is very concerning.
That's my point to a degree. People who were neglected often don't realise it, and neglect can cause even worse symptoms than direct abuse can. The difference between an anxious attachment system and a disorganised attachment system.
The numbers are higher, because we now realise that it's not just direct abuse that causes issues with working memory, it's also emotional neglect and physical neglect. This is really common.
So all in all, I think the assessment that it's rare and therefore clearly not the case here is just impossible to suggest is correct. In fact it suggests the opposite may be true.
The reality is though, there's no difference between the opinions there – I'm just offering a potential explanation for the behaviour. That doesn't mean the behaviour was okay, or that it should be excused etc.
Then if you want to chase after him, use it as your motivation. If you fuck this up, you might need to spend more time on your studies still. If you get it over with you will have time to try to convince him this is done, and will be no more.
Not sure if you can do it, there are a lot of factors involved. However, falling apart right now is a surefire way to lose this opportunity.
I don’t agree with that based on what was written. I am definitely attuned to call out abuse and here I see two people who are young and want totally different things, and are not communicating about it well.
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Well I subbed to a new board today!
Rofl. Yeah that translates to “don’t hurt me for fucking your wife.”
There's no “him” here
Your husband should know better than to go into business with this “man” that acts like a 2 year old. He needs to grow up and your husbands thinking is very concerning.
That's my point to a degree. People who were neglected often don't realise it, and neglect can cause even worse symptoms than direct abuse can. The difference between an anxious attachment system and a disorganised attachment system.
The numbers are higher, because we now realise that it's not just direct abuse that causes issues with working memory, it's also emotional neglect and physical neglect. This is really common.
So all in all, I think the assessment that it's rare and therefore clearly not the case here is just impossible to suggest is correct. In fact it suggests the opposite may be true.
The reality is though, there's no difference between the opinions there – I'm just offering a potential explanation for the behaviour. That doesn't mean the behaviour was okay, or that it should be excused etc.
Ya know I didn’t really think about this. I never thought of her as a cheater, but this could be it.
Then if you want to chase after him, use it as your motivation. If you fuck this up, you might need to spend more time on your studies still. If you get it over with you will have time to try to convince him this is done, and will be no more.
Not sure if you can do it, there are a lot of factors involved. However, falling apart right now is a surefire way to lose this opportunity.
I don’t agree with that based on what was written. I am definitely attuned to call out abuse and here I see two people who are young and want totally different things, and are not communicating about it well.