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?? agreed.
OP, you’re not overthinking things. At the beginning of a relationship is a great time to figure things out, discuss expectations and set boundaries. Long distance means compromise but make sure it’s not one sided.
First let's get this out of the way: your mother is abusive.
There is absolutely no “but she's your mother” excuses here. She is cruel and abusive. Her mental health and addiction struggles do not justify how she has treated you.
And, here's the thing about forgiveness: before you can forgive someone, they have to apologise. They have to actually be sorry and try to make amends. Otherwise it isn't forgiveness, it's just endurance. Enduring bad behaviour and mistreatment that will continue because the abuser is not sorry and not remorseful.
Making up with your mother is on HER. She is the one who was abusive. She is the one who needs to make things up to YOU. If she can't reach out and apologise for her behaviour, then there's not much you can really do besides endure it or ignore it.
I'm really sorry if it has to end this way. In a perfect world, she'd make amends and apologise for her terrible abusive behaviour and then die after giving you the closure you needed. But we don't online in a perfect world, and chances are that's just not going to happen. Abusers rarely ever want to admit that they are abusive.
Just know that there wasn't a perfect solution that you could have manifested. There was no special cheat code here. You did all you could. She just wasn't willing to comply, and that's on her. She made the choice to end things this way. This isn't your fault.
Omg. Your poor family….Please, I implore you, keep posting and responding on Reddit bc this is fucking hilarious. You are an absolute lunatic and the ultimate living example of “fucked around and found out” lmfao.
Congrats, your bullshit shit is 10x more entertaining than anything on netflix
?? agreed.
OP, you’re not overthinking things. At the beginning of a relationship is a great time to figure things out, discuss expectations and set boundaries. Long distance means compromise but make sure it’s not one sided.
I've been with my partner for slightly less than 5 months, and I would leave them if that happened.
First let's get this out of the way: your mother is abusive.
There is absolutely no “but she's your mother” excuses here. She is cruel and abusive. Her mental health and addiction struggles do not justify how she has treated you.
And, here's the thing about forgiveness: before you can forgive someone, they have to apologise. They have to actually be sorry and try to make amends. Otherwise it isn't forgiveness, it's just endurance. Enduring bad behaviour and mistreatment that will continue because the abuser is not sorry and not remorseful.
Making up with your mother is on HER. She is the one who was abusive. She is the one who needs to make things up to YOU. If she can't reach out and apologise for her behaviour, then there's not much you can really do besides endure it or ignore it.
I'm really sorry if it has to end this way. In a perfect world, she'd make amends and apologise for her terrible abusive behaviour and then die after giving you the closure you needed. But we don't online in a perfect world, and chances are that's just not going to happen. Abusers rarely ever want to admit that they are abusive.
Just know that there wasn't a perfect solution that you could have manifested. There was no special cheat code here. You did all you could. She just wasn't willing to comply, and that's on her. She made the choice to end things this way. This isn't your fault.
Omg. Your poor family….Please, I implore you, keep posting and responding on Reddit bc this is fucking hilarious. You are an absolute lunatic and the ultimate living example of “fucked around and found out” lmfao.
Congrats, your bullshit shit is 10x more entertaining than anything on netflix