I'm not sure about your reasoning m8. Your kids will not be like other kids, they'll be yours from start to finish.
Personally I'm extremely weird about other people's kids, I've always been that way; but I'm 100% different with mine. So just because your not good with other peoples children doesn't mean squat for your own.
To your question tho, if you really don't ever want to have kids, don't waste her time. Her fertility window is a lot tighter than yours is. It isn't fair to lead her on.
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Add to what everyone is saying below where she said the reason she withheld this info was BECAUSE of his obsession with taking her virginity. Personally I think she should have taken this as a red flag and dumped him a long time ago, but in your early 20's it's nude to see or put red flags over what you think is love.
Uh oh! Red flags!!!! If she smiled at you that means she wants you to divorce your wife, impregnate her, and start a stock broker firm with you. A smile can ruin lives
I'm not sure about your reasoning m8. Your kids will not be like other kids, they'll be yours from start to finish.
Personally I'm extremely weird about other people's kids, I've always been that way; but I'm 100% different with mine. So just because your not good with other peoples children doesn't mean squat for your own.
To your question tho, if you really don't ever want to have kids, don't waste her time. Her fertility window is a lot tighter than yours is. It isn't fair to lead her on.
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how long was the kid in the car
It's your GF that needs therapy.
This was so well expressed. Best of luck to you and OP with your challenges ?
It's a really difficult situation, but you aren't married. It's okay to break up with her.
move on
Add to what everyone is saying below where she said the reason she withheld this info was BECAUSE of his obsession with taking her virginity. Personally I think she should have taken this as a red flag and dumped him a long time ago, but in your early 20's it's nude to see or put red flags over what you think is love.
Uh oh! Red flags!!!! If she smiled at you that means she wants you to divorce your wife, impregnate her, and start a stock broker firm with you. A smile can ruin lives