These women can't make your boyfriend leave you, but you can if you try to stop him from being friendly to people. You seem to understand the latter half, but not the former. He's with you because of who you are. Continue being that person and everything will be just fine. Change and you make a lane for one of them to take him away.
Sorta. She’s had an illness that kind of messed with her diet. We’ve adjusted to it but it’s a very limited diet. She does have favourites she can eat though and I always offer to make. She get frustrated with being sick for the most part which I’m very empathetic towards. Just hard dealing with her stink eye after I offer to make her food
I logged in them all and none of them had any recent activity. I even asked one of them his last recent time on-line
This is more than a bit naughty, this for many people (me included) would be an instant break up. You breached his privacy in a huge way and even messaged a total stranger who probably doesn't need a random 3rd party seeing messages they assumed were private.
No reason to not trust him and you've already confirmed that messages weren't sent.
Whether he gets a trust issue from this with you is down to him, but I'd recommend he takes a big step back and re-evaluate. If this 6 months in, what about a year, 2 years etc…
This probably isn't the kind of answer you're looking for but you did something really awful here and for your own sake you need to realise just how bad it is.
It’s very different with grandparents. In many jurisdictions they have no inherent rights. Courts frown upon keeping a parent from their child except in the most extreme of circumstances.
I bet he will marry when the risk is worth the reward, and that ain't you.
If you want to get married someday, and he tells you he won't ever marry you, then I would suggest you end the relationship because you both want different things.
But seriously, he's going to marry the next girlfriend, its almost like a rule.
Why is your desire to travel more important than him wanting to drive a better car?
This is not your business. If you were engaged and soon to be married, ok. But your bf can spend his money any way he wants.
The larger issue is that you two don't seem to be on the same page about your future. Conversations about your long term plans are overdue.
These women can't make your boyfriend leave you, but you can if you try to stop him from being friendly to people. You seem to understand the latter half, but not the former. He's with you because of who you are. Continue being that person and everything will be just fine. Change and you make a lane for one of them to take him away.
Sorta. She’s had an illness that kind of messed with her diet. We’ve adjusted to it but it’s a very limited diet. She does have favourites she can eat though and I always offer to make. She get frustrated with being sick for the most part which I’m very empathetic towards. Just hard dealing with her stink eye after I offer to make her food
I logged in them all and none of them had any recent activity. I even asked one of them his last recent time on-line
This is more than a bit naughty, this for many people (me included) would be an instant break up. You breached his privacy in a huge way and even messaged a total stranger who probably doesn't need a random 3rd party seeing messages they assumed were private.
No reason to not trust him and you've already confirmed that messages weren't sent.
Whether he gets a trust issue from this with you is down to him, but I'd recommend he takes a big step back and re-evaluate. If this 6 months in, what about a year, 2 years etc…
This probably isn't the kind of answer you're looking for but you did something really awful here and for your own sake you need to realise just how bad it is.
It’s very different with grandparents. In many jurisdictions they have no inherent rights. Courts frown upon keeping a parent from their child except in the most extreme of circumstances.
And that’s wrong.
uh, sorry to say, he does not want to marry you.
I bet he will marry when the risk is worth the reward, and that ain't you.
If you want to get married someday, and he tells you he won't ever marry you, then I would suggest you end the relationship because you both want different things.
But seriously, he's going to marry the next girlfriend, its almost like a rule.
You are not dating an adult. You are dating a child. She gaslights you and then wants sex. Get rid and don’t look back bro.
Of course your wife was no longer carefree. She got something big she absolutely had to care about, a child. She had to step up.