Man, this has happened to me more times than I care to admit. Please know, this is more normal than you think. Sometimes the mind wanders, or feels a bit disconnected from the body (especially if she already finished 2 times) and when you realize it’s happening it’s freaky because you feel very removed from the sex that is happening.
I would say just to reassure her that everything is okay, and don’t act differently around her or treat her like she’s fragile. Let her know you respect her boundaries and that she can ALWAYS communicate to you that she may not be into it, even if it’s already started.
It sounds like you handled this well, OP. For your sake, and hers – just keep in mind that this is normal.
For me the first red flag would be a cis het man saying “i am more comfortable talking with women”… Really?? What makes you so godawful that your own kind cannot keep up with you?
It seems like a real reach to me but she’s the one who was in the car with him so whatever.
Man, this has happened to me more times than I care to admit. Please know, this is more normal than you think. Sometimes the mind wanders, or feels a bit disconnected from the body (especially if she already finished 2 times) and when you realize it’s happening it’s freaky because you feel very removed from the sex that is happening.
I would say just to reassure her that everything is okay, and don’t act differently around her or treat her like she’s fragile. Let her know you respect her boundaries and that she can ALWAYS communicate to you that she may not be into it, even if it’s already started.
It sounds like you handled this well, OP. For your sake, and hers – just keep in mind that this is normal.
For me the first red flag would be a cis het man saying “i am more comfortable talking with women”… Really?? What makes you so godawful that your own kind cannot keep up with you?
Urine is actually not sterile
please look for a therapist
Leave
Fighting and asking for some space is okay not blocking your SO that's childish. Honestly it's odd he blocks you I would just walk away.
Yeah here’s my million dollar advice , tell ur adhd bipolar gf to fuck off