My [27F] partner [42M] met me in a bar when I was 20 and drunk. I asked him why. He says I’m calling him a groomer. How can we discuss this fairly?
9KI met my partner when I was 20, he was in his 30s and married. He approached me when I was alone in a bar, semi-drunk and sad. We hooked up after. It took him a few weeks to tell me he’s married.
Seven years later we are still together. I love him very much. He is even on good terms with his ex.
I asked my partner about why he approached me that night in the bar whilst married and what made him approach someone that much younger. At first he answered my questions then got bothered because he said I’m accusing him of grooming. Now I have ruined Valentine’s Day.
How can we discuss this fairly now that I’m older? Knowing what I know now I wouldn’t date an older man like this if I could go back in time. But we are happy now but I want to be able to discuss this with him. How?
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You signed up for this by being the affair partner.
I guess you felt you two are different and she wouldn't cheat on you like she did before. Take it as a lesson that if you act with questionable morals yourself you will get in this kind of situations.
Ow and if she still has a partner please tell them she is cheating on them.
5 months and a red flag like this. You don't bring it up or discuss it you just move on with your life.
Yes. He says he needs to take care of her and that if that’s how it is then the journey is done. He also says that when she retires then things might be different.
How did they meet though? Serious.