My ex GF [24F] cheated on me [22M] & had a kid. She left her boyfriend [25M] and wants me to take her back.
2KI don't want to come off as arrogant or cocky. I just have had such large growth financially and mentally. This girl and I dated for months, but bad a lifelong friendship & we were friends since we were both toddlers.
I've always had feelings for her and I thought she was my soul mate. We had a lot of plans and goals to complete together, but she acted to play games and left me for another dude.
Obviously it hurt and I am still feeling some sort of betrayal over it. The thing is, she had a baby with that guy. After the whole mess I cut her off completely and she kept trying to be my friend, but I turned my back to her.
I saw her a couple times recently due to some stuff that was going on and we had some conversations on my and her feelings. The thing is I am not the same. I started making high 6 digits a year and I think for somebody my age I am doing very good. I just recently bought a house months ago, I am able to afford the things I like, and I am loving comfortably.
She on the other hand dumped and kicked her boyfriend out. Right after she did that, she called me to tell me she wanted to give it another go. I have issues, ever since she left me I was feeling lonely and I am still attached to her
. But I also do not believe she wants to be with me over her feelings for me, more so because I am successful now. How should I handle things with her? I don't want to be rude, but I do want to know her true intentions.
Tldr: my ex left me for somebody else and settled down. Now that things went south, she got separated and she wants to date me, but I am not so sure I can trust her again.
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