My girlfriend 36/F wants to pick up her ex 32/M from jail. I 44/M Freaking out.
9KHere is a quick backstory. My girlfriend of almost 4 years has been writing letters back and forth and visiting her ex who was locked up for 4 months. He's getting out in 24 hours and she wants to pick him up. Last Sept , my girlfriend and I broke up for a short time due to homelessness. She hooked up with this guy who getting out. I get my shit together , get a place , get back on my feet. My girlfriend and I get back together . Now here we are. ( Yes it's a single wide folks) I feel upset, angry and disrespected she even thinks this is ok. She says she's trying to be a good person and it's the right thing to do. I retort saying it does not make you a good person nor is it the right thing to do. They owe each other nothing , and she made a commitment to our relationship. She says I'm insecure. Advice?
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