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In her mind, he was saying her lunches are “sh*t”.
I didn't clarify sorry but she was already my x when she confronted me and yes i am depressed and can't afford therapy even tho I've asked parents before..
He's fucking her and keeping you as a side piece. Tell her that he's been seeing you and then ditch him
Big yikes that he gifts you a lot, and more yikes that you think that makes him a good guy. You are getting into an abusive relationship, where he creates lows (verbal and physical abuse) and highs (gifts and kisses all over).
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Really need help on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. And from the beginning he was really fit and kept himself groomed. Mainly because the military was forcing him to. After he got out however he's been on a straight decline since. I used to have to remind him to brush his teeth, he's gotten better at that part. He's gained over 60 pounds and wears the same clothes everyday unless I pick out his outfit. Im a really flamboyant young lady and we get a lot of stares when we are out in public because we just look like total opposites. I've told him multiple times how I wish that he took care of himself. We've had serious conversations but nothing ever improves. I love him for him but I'm at a breaking point where I crave physical attention but not from him in his current state. Besides physical attraction he's a wonderful partner who always has my back…I feel like I would be a bitch if I broke things off for these reasons.
Edit: I just wanted to mention that he was never active duty and went straight into the reserves after training.
For starters that sucks and I’m sorry for your possible miscarriage. The fact is that right now you don’t know for sure if you miscarried or are pregnant because you haven’t been to the doctor. But we’ll assume that you did have a miscarriage and either passed it completely, or will need to have a procedure to remove anything that wasn’t passed.
Like others have said, there’s no reason for this guy to think he can’t have children unless he’s specifically voiced that concern to you before. So that being your reason for telling him seems like a reach. It’s totally up to you if you tell him, but based on what he’s said to you, he doesn’t have an interest in being in a relationship with you, he either will give his apologies or condolences over text and you’ll still be “going through it alone” as you said. There’s also not a guarantee he would pay for anything.
It seems to me like he’s trying to disengage as much as possible and is doing the bare minimum to be polite or not a total asshole during this breakup. He came to you in person to break up, and told you in the “let you down easy” cliché terms that it wasn’t working out, you pushed to talk about it so he probably agreed to keep the peace. You pushed again, suggesting he just “wanted to see other people” but he again said he needed space, making it clear that he just doesn’t want to be in a relationship AT ALL. Even now you’re still trying to communicate with him even though he said he wants a clean break and he’s doing the bare minimum to not ghost you and probably hoping you’ll take the (not so subtle) hints: 3 word bare minimum responses, being flippant, etc.
That being said he doesn’t sound like someone you should want a relationship with. You guys were getting serious and at the first real sign of commitment he breaks it off. That tells you all you need to know about him as a person. I’m sorry it worked out this way but leave this guy alone and tell him about the possible miscarriage if you want but don’t expect anything from him. As for him watching/liking stuff on social media, I’m going to assume it’s his immaturity and the fact that he likes you enough to fuck you but not commit.
My advice would be: go to the doctor, get your things from his house if you haven’t, stop talking to him, and talk to a therapist for your attachment issues.
since you obviously don’t know what accidental means, i’m not surprised at all you don’t know what taking accountability means.
No, we on-line together and over the years, everything has become so tangled. Luckily, we keep finances separate, but we got a cat during covid and the whole friends and family situation. ugh, and I can't imagine being on my own
You ignored so many red flags. What are you even asking?
You have two choices….Change the locks when he goes and consult a lawyer or lay down and keep being a doormat.