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This sounds very immature to me but I’m 50. Basically your bf brought you to an event with his family who you already know he doesn’t want to hang out with. Then when he had enough he says let’s go and your response is to disrespect his feelings and ignore them. Then you are upset because he didn’t stay by your side due to you feeling abandoned. If I was him I would’ve left without you. You showed that you will decide unilaterally if his feelings have merit and pick your own above his. And you think he is being manipulative? Because he didn’t go along with you ignoring his feelings? You need to learn you are not the only one that matters. You don’t get to decide how he feels.
Date someone else. At best, she has a weird entanglement with her ex that she's chosen to stay in for way longer than any sensible person would, at worst, she's still with him and cheating with you. This sounds like some bullshit to try to cover for him occasionally being mentioned or heard over the mic. You can always reconsider if she actually does move out and moves this “old” relationship to platonic friendship, but if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
You're way too young and new to this “relationship” to be investing in this level of nonsense. Time to move along.
Get your ducks in a row to dump her. She want can be down with either canceling the sale of the apartment or for you to buy it by yourself. She is not the one for you.
All the arguments he uses for delay suggest things will never change.
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Establish boundaries for yourself
Don't communicate outside of work
3 Don't discuss personal life
4 Don't engage outside of work, even in office maintain distance
5 Don't flirt or reciprocate to his flirting ( if he does)
You're at a very line that could destroy or make your marriage strong. Decision is yours
This sounds very immature to me but I’m 50. Basically your bf brought you to an event with his family who you already know he doesn’t want to hang out with. Then when he had enough he says let’s go and your response is to disrespect his feelings and ignore them. Then you are upset because he didn’t stay by your side due to you feeling abandoned. If I was him I would’ve left without you. You showed that you will decide unilaterally if his feelings have merit and pick your own above his. And you think he is being manipulative? Because he didn’t go along with you ignoring his feelings? You need to learn you are not the only one that matters. You don’t get to decide how he feels.
Date someone else. At best, she has a weird entanglement with her ex that she's chosen to stay in for way longer than any sensible person would, at worst, she's still with him and cheating with you. This sounds like some bullshit to try to cover for him occasionally being mentioned or heard over the mic. You can always reconsider if she actually does move out and moves this “old” relationship to platonic friendship, but if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
You're way too young and new to this “relationship” to be investing in this level of nonsense. Time to move along.
You need to find YOU a new place to online. She needs to find her own accommodations.
Not everyone has a raging libido. If he is closer to asexual, then you're simply not compatible if frequent sex is a need for you.
Why don't you try talking about how often each of you is interested in having sex?
Get your ducks in a row to dump her. She want can be down with either canceling the sale of the apartment or for you to buy it by yourself. She is not the one for you.