You are definitely wasting your time. You are holding on to a relationship that he doesn’t want and stringing you along for. He has ex’s with him to show support and comforting him. It sounds like he ruined his previous relationship with his ex by leaving one woman for another. It’s not his the ex impeding him it’s his guilt. He doesn’t want your support and comfort. It’s time to move on.
If you're in a healthy relationship with someone you can share your opinion and give advice. If it's important to you, you don't have to pretend to be indifferent to it.
And it sounds like what he wants to do conflicts with your goals. I'd share that too.
Of course you can't stop him from buying the car. He has every right. But this conversation can influence the direction your relationship goes.
I have a relationship very similar to yours and she is completely wrong. I’m not sexually repulsed though. You have nothing to be ashamed of. She knew she was asexual going into this relationship and should have know and expected to need a little patience on this sort of subject.
If you try to work this out then I think a serious but calm discussion it needed. If this isn’t something you guys can work out, then be glad it is only a 5 MONTH relationship and not 5 YEARS.
Ty for correcting me, I missed that detail. That doesn’t change the end result though – it’s the husband’s family inheritance before he met OP, she’s in no way entitled to it.
I think that while she was in the relationship she, she really valued the ability to tell someone about her life, and what she was doing etc. for example if she’s at the grocery store and sees a funny cereal, she might want to show someone and experience that with someone. If it is too much for you, you need to find a way to communicate that to them. Also, encourage them to meet new people!
regards to not knowing what to respond when they take a shower or something similar. When my partner, or best friend send me something like that, I usually have a quick funny response. If they tell me “I’m going to shower” I’ll respond “don’t slip”, or maybe “have fun”
He could be cheating. Definitely at least sounds like he's playing mind games with you to get some attention or for you to pine over him
What makes him feel loved? Physical touch? Words of affirmation?
Stop giving it to him.
You are definitely wasting your time. You are holding on to a relationship that he doesn’t want and stringing you along for. He has ex’s with him to show support and comforting him. It sounds like he ruined his previous relationship with his ex by leaving one woman for another. It’s not his the ex impeding him it’s his guilt. He doesn’t want your support and comfort. It’s time to move on.
If you're in a healthy relationship with someone you can share your opinion and give advice. If it's important to you, you don't have to pretend to be indifferent to it.
And it sounds like what he wants to do conflicts with your goals. I'd share that too.
Of course you can't stop him from buying the car. He has every right. But this conversation can influence the direction your relationship goes.
I have a relationship very similar to yours and she is completely wrong. I’m not sexually repulsed though. You have nothing to be ashamed of. She knew she was asexual going into this relationship and should have know and expected to need a little patience on this sort of subject.
If you try to work this out then I think a serious but calm discussion it needed. If this isn’t something you guys can work out, then be glad it is only a 5 MONTH relationship and not 5 YEARS.
I’ll suggest showing up to his work, slapping that bitch as very hot as you can across the face, in front of her coworkers, then leave.
Ty for correcting me, I missed that detail. That doesn’t change the end result though – it’s the husband’s family inheritance before he met OP, she’s in no way entitled to it.
I think that while she was in the relationship she, she really valued the ability to tell someone about her life, and what she was doing etc. for example if she’s at the grocery store and sees a funny cereal, she might want to show someone and experience that with someone. If it is too much for you, you need to find a way to communicate that to them. Also, encourage them to meet new people!
regards to not knowing what to respond when they take a shower or something similar. When my partner, or best friend send me something like that, I usually have a quick funny response. If they tell me “I’m going to shower” I’ll respond “don’t slip”, or maybe “have fun”