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I'm going to disagree with this. It might seem super obvious to everyone else here but there's actually a reason the brain does this. If she were willingly imagining someone else, the likelihood of her being daft enough to say it out loud 4 times is unlikely. Her reactions, confusion and embarrassment at it also don't really align here.
It depends on the situation but basically if she was with the ex for a while, and quite in love (especially if this was her first real bf) his name is in a part of her brain with connections and associations to a permanent partner, love etc. This memory is enforced by strong feelings. If her new boyfriend is now filling that slot, she's probably got the idea of him in there now, but the name her memory is most used to and dominates that part of her connection comes out first. It's more complex than this really, but anyone can google and find a few psychology articles on it. It's more about physical memory, strong memory connection and feelings or associations.
Anecdotally, I left an 8 year relationship with someone I still very much cared about and thought well of, but no longer wanted to be with. I got my current bf about 1-2 years later. Neve associated him with my ex at all. But then suddenly when we became more official, I started feeling like I was in love and he was a safe permanent partner… Whenever we had sex my and I went to say his name, I almost couldn't remember it and my ex's name floated into my brain instead. I am lucky in that I never said it, but this persisted for 6 months to a year and I found it really annoying and confusing. I very much ended my last relationship and didn't want it, and very much wanted this one and was very infatuated and in love. Now my current bf dominates that part of my memory, so I accidentally call people his name sometimes when I'm having fun with them. Not sexually, just like playing computer games and laughing lots and I'll accidentally call whoever I'm having fun with by bfs name.
So I think if you are highly emotional, and that's a huge connection point for you with memories, ie the feelings create another stronger path to the memory, this is actually not that unbelievable. It seems more mental to me that she'd be imagining the bf, in the height of new romantic and likely infatuated feelings with the new boyfriend.
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I understand every side of this except for the parents. How the fuck would you not believe your own daughter in this situation. That is so messed up.
I mean. If he’s certain they won’t accept you, and you’re certain you won’t convert….. I’m sorry you already know the answer unfortunately
I feel you have every right to be upset. The difference is that I keep my partner involved every step of the way and triple-check his comfort level. If he was EVER to express discomfort, he takes priority.
I understand how it feels to have others be prioritized over you in a relationship and it’s awful. This is not that.
INFO: if you went MIA for a week, would this relationship exist?
Yeah you do.
What a collossal prick.
Our families have nothing to say in our relationship.. they are barrely in our lifes anymore. Yes.. i want this one my way beacause i know i cant.. i wont..
She has the last word in almost every other subject. and i am not bothered by that. But in this case i cant.. i just cant.