There's a lot of “I” in here. You need to figure out how to change that to “we”. Maybe even couples therapy.
You're both young, and I think it would really, really benefit you both, your relationship, and any future children you have, if you went to couples therapy. It might be able to give you tools to communicate and teach you both a few things that a lot of others only really learn later in life. Like standing up for your needs and wants.
You'll also both be able to hash out any issues that you might not even realise are present, and it will hopefully reveal if he's someone you should be having a child with anyway.
If he has his own property and you don’t, it makes sense for you to make a purchase. You can rent together for a few more years and build your portfolio – either together or separately.
Since the relationship is rocky, you might want to sit down and talk about your financial goals. That should help tip the scales of your relationship.
Sincerely, thank you. This is helpful. ❤️
Dump him
Girl. ? Better get some air freshener because it's smelling a little fishy over there.
I assume she has no car because of the car accidents. If he wants to help her he should allow her to use his car.
There's a lot of “I” in here. You need to figure out how to change that to “we”. Maybe even couples therapy.
You're both young, and I think it would really, really benefit you both, your relationship, and any future children you have, if you went to couples therapy. It might be able to give you tools to communicate and teach you both a few things that a lot of others only really learn later in life. Like standing up for your needs and wants.
You'll also both be able to hash out any issues that you might not even realise are present, and it will hopefully reveal if he's someone you should be having a child with anyway.
If he has his own property and you don’t, it makes sense for you to make a purchase. You can rent together for a few more years and build your portfolio – either together or separately.
Since the relationship is rocky, you might want to sit down and talk about your financial goals. That should help tip the scales of your relationship.
She told you she was happier with you away. You said you could spend less time together. When you spent less time together you called asking her why.
This probably wasn’t sudden on her part. It sucks but figuring out if you’re compatible is what dating is for.
ex gf*