Um, lady, the only appropriate response is to immediately break up.
This guys was never going to marry you or anything anyway. Say thanks for the year of memories, then give him the finger for ditching you. Then think how it's a little creepy it is for a 27-year-old to date a 19-year-old in the first place (if you don't get it now, you will get it before you're 27) Then, mentally prepare yourself for his engagement/wedding announcement, which is most likely coming soon. And then move on with your life, and consider this guy a cautionary tale to help you make better choices in future.
One day, you'll want to slap your younger self for agonizing over whether it was selfish of you to be upset about his. Trust me, you have been free of any moral obligation to consider his happiness in any way since he flew off in that plane; you just haven't realized it yet
What a ridiculous post.
Your poor husband. If he knew how you really felt about him, heβd probably leave and rightly so.
If she is on her period she would have said something when you initiated sex.
Plan B is for plan B not for pain.
She is very very suspicious.
Control and attention/validation issues……two of the biggest landmines in relationships.
Seems like the immediate solution is to speak with the LL
Um, lady, the only appropriate response is to immediately break up.
This guys was never going to marry you or anything anyway. Say thanks for the year of memories, then give him the finger for ditching you. Then think how it's a little creepy it is for a 27-year-old to date a 19-year-old in the first place (if you don't get it now, you will get it before you're 27) Then, mentally prepare yourself for his engagement/wedding announcement, which is most likely coming soon. And then move on with your life, and consider this guy a cautionary tale to help you make better choices in future.
One day, you'll want to slap your younger self for agonizing over whether it was selfish of you to be upset about his. Trust me, you have been free of any moral obligation to consider his happiness in any way since he flew off in that plane; you just haven't realized it yet
Girlie pop, he's cheating on you and doesn't even have enough respect to hide the evidence before you get there. ?
That story makes 0 sense. Sounds a lot as it is made up