Babe, you are 22. Your life is just beginning. You shared some high school shit together, cute. Move on. You will deal with this marry him, divorced with kids by 30. That's not cute.
Your boyfriend is abusive. He belittles and berates you for the silliest reasons. With him, you are not allowed to think independently or disagree with him. Please free yourself before you have children and he abuses you into not being able to make parenting decisions, and then treats your kids like they’re also not allowed to have independent thoughts.
Nothing against a glass or two of wine while out at a dinner, but over that – and habitually ? That’s not something I choose to be around for all the reasons you mention.
Yes, the attitude in the post suggests OP and partner are both very immature
Even if you convince your fiancée to have kids, she might resent you for it. She obviously doesn't want to be a parent. Stop trying to convince her.
So what you went snooping through his journal or something?
Babe, you are 22. Your life is just beginning. You shared some high school shit together, cute. Move on. You will deal with this marry him, divorced with kids by 30. That's not cute.
So she assaulted you, insulted you then cheated on you…and you’re the problem?
Gotcha
Your boyfriend is abusive. He belittles and berates you for the silliest reasons. With him, you are not allowed to think independently or disagree with him. Please free yourself before you have children and he abuses you into not being able to make parenting decisions, and then treats your kids like they’re also not allowed to have independent thoughts.
Yes, for me, it would.
Nothing against a glass or two of wine while out at a dinner, but over that – and habitually ? That’s not something I choose to be around for all the reasons you mention.