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Write her a letter that explains all of your feelings, then hand it to her and let her read it and you can have a discussion after that if sheās willing.
INFO: Does your mom want her there?
Your ADHD spouse who has been honest with you about how he can best support your wants and needs has told you heās willing to put in the effort to make you happy. Youāre shooting down every logical person on this sub who is telling you that giving him the help heās asking for is going to lead to more of what you want.
HIS ADHD does not work the way YOU want it to. It is literally preventing his brain from thinking the way yours does, and you expect him to use willpower to overcome this? Again, I can appreciate how this post might not speak two the 16 years youāve been together and the disappointment or stress that stems from that, but I could not honestly sit here and tell my partner his effort isnāt good enough because it doesnāt meet my standard, after Iāve refused to help him in the way heās asked. So Iāll ask you: what do you wanna hear from this sub + community? You asked for advice, youāre being called out, and youāre not listening because itās not what you want to hear. ADHD causes short attention spans, thatās what the meds are for. It comes across as if our short term memory is fucked or as if we donāt listen, thatās not the case, our brains just donāt retain this information. You say his ADHD is untreated – so youāre literally asking him to do something that he is mentally incapable of doing and then insinuating heās lazy. Look, idk if heās not on meds cause yāall canāt afford it or heās unemployed or maybe he doesnāt believe in meds, but youāre literally setting your spouse up for failure because itās more important for you to dig your heels in the dirt. God, is this what relationships are in 2022? We donāt compromise or meet each other half way anymore? We nurse ego and only accept things the way we want them? Yo, if this is your hill to do on, so be it, but this is an advice sub. Donāt come here and ask for advice or help and then write off anyone who doesnāt agree with you. Your spouse asked for help to love you as you want to be loved. You donāt want to help. That makes this a YOU problem. So either you help or you stay unhappy. Take it or leave it.
Healthy relationships are founded on love, trust, respect and compassion.
Telling you that your boundaries “are dumb” is not respectful. It is, however, telling you that his desire to see painted titties is more important to him than respecting you. If he wants to be trusted, then he should focus on being trustworthy.
The big question is: Why does he feel this way? What emotional or sexual need is he trying to fulfill by being around women dressed like that?
Your boundaries are your boundaries. If something makes you uncomfortable, and you've communicated that to him, then it's up to him to decide whether doing the action is more important to him than staying in the relationship.
FWIW, as a 57M, I agree with your take – going to an establishment that features topless staff is different than walking around seeing people doing whatever they're doing. You have no control over whether the people around you are topless or not. You are seeking out women that are topless when you go to the bar.
Good luck, OP – it sounds like you have a good handle on boundaries, and I hope that your husband pulls his head out of his ass.
Yeah, I can see how it's going to be living a lie kind of from here on, especially being as involved with her family as she is and how involved they are going to want to be with us
Youāre not sexually compatible, and that doesnāt bode well for a long term successful relationship
Read the rest of my comments then. For someone who is ādenseā Iām the only one who offered him any real advice he can use to talk to his girlfriend. Everyone else is just sucking him off about how his feelings are valid.
Of course they are, but him being unable to express them without yelling and swearing arenāt going to fix the issue now are they?
Him finding the source of his feelings is important to having a conversation with his girlfriend. Youāre not going to convince someone to understand your feelings if you donāt even understand them yourself.
It sounds like he values the dog more than his family. Wanting the dog to be musclar and big sounds less like a pet and more for some other reason.
I hope that he at least trains the dog properly but I don't think he is thinking that far.
i've been in a similar boat. it's naked, but if you don't want to be in the relationship then you should end it. hopefully your apartment has a couch in it
Congratulations! He's not a good man anymore. Please stop making excuses, there isn't one.
Haha, why ask a dumb question? Your bf wants to have sex with other women while you financially support him. Why would you even come live! to ask this question?
Get some self esteem, some self respect and a new man.
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