Press right there to start video
Room for online video chats notselena
notselenalive sex stripping with hd cam
23K Share
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat notselena
Model from: pe
Languages: en,es
Birth Date: 1998-10-23
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityLatino
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureStudent
">
Whether his current relationship is a “rebound” or not he's made it clear that he's not interested in rekindling anything with you. You can't wait around for someone who's telling you not to wait for them. You'd be emotionally healthier if you'd disconnect from him on social media and start accepting that it's over. It's normal to have pangs of longing for someone who broke up with you. But there comes a point when you're only hurting yourself by lingering in the shadow of their new relationship. Focus on your own (real) needs here and go no contact. It's the only way you'll get over him and eventually be emotionally available for when the right guy comes along. Don't miss out on your future because you're too busy lamenting your past. Good luck.
Hello /u/urshitassdad,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
I'm not sure that the label is so important, but we can agree that he deceived you for the purpose of getting sex and then dumped you after getting what he wanted.
The more important thing is to move more slowly/ cautiously when it comes to forming a relationship so you have time to learn about the other person's character, compatibility, and intentions. Letting yourself get wrapped up in a whirlwind of “love” often comes with rose colored glasses that cover up all the red flags you would notice if you took things more slowly.
Could be the self doubt of being worthy of love? Perhaps work on your inner happiness and healing process of past traumas. Once you're content with yourself, then is a good time to open your heart to a potential relationship but keeping in mind to not just settle for anyone.
When a woman gives off a desperate vibe, it makes it harder for her to connect with men as they don't usually want to deal with someone emotional and if they feel smothered by her in the initial stages.
Make sure you take up a hobby or 2 so that you're keeping yourself busy and not relying on a man to fill any voids (as he's going to want space without being questioned).
I know folks think it’s too common that Reddit comments jump to DUMP HIM. But honestly I feel like it’s just too many of us elders on here have survived shitty relationships and see the mountain of red flags to call it what it is.. baby love, I shook my head over so many points in your sharing. This whole thing is unhealthy to say the least. Sounds like you have continued to grow and mature appropriately approaching your 30s and he is acting like a dickhead teenager. His volatile aggressive escalation and outbursts when there was literally no call for any conflict. So he was furious you didn’t do his laundry? Like a punk spoiled kid to his Mom. REALLY? That’s what this boils down to, he then flipped it on you heavy manipulative to make you feel responsible for his tantrum discomfort at being forced to take care of himself. The anxiety and fear then makes you apologize and second guess yourself for implementing self care strategy to take care of yourself first. Am I getting that straight? I’d like to know what if any domestic duties does he contribute? Feel safe to assume its imbalanced both by his reaction to a minor change especially as the reason for it is that you listed the lion’s share that you already do. What other ways does he control your choices or the physical rules of the home even if not directly but by expressing his displeasure with the fits as described – slamming shit or huffing?? Is it recipes for meals or the way you cook or shows you choose watch vs ones he picks? Perfume you wear or routes you take to wake the dog? It’s super unhealthy the way he treats you and makes you react to his ridiculous honest abuse by paralyzed thoughts & destructive self talk like “I messed up”, and PLZ reread your whole last paragraph – truly devastating broke my heart for you. Please consider that not all couples evolve together and not meant for a lifetime. Many of us dating from high school or early college and just beyond to find ourselves at a similar toxic crossroad as we likely planned to spend life with this long term partner. Look up “sunk cost fallacy”. Please don’t waste anymore of your time taking responsibility for someone who makes you “scared to say anything wrong to fear his reaction”. He needs therapy and it’s not your job to emotionally educate him nor be his hoping only figurative punching bag. You are not a “fuck-up, dumbass, nor asshole”, he truly is that’s the magic of manipulation he’s flipped his insecurities into you. Please plan an exit strategy and get therapy asap to support your through it and recover. You will feel like you are free and can breathe above water again soon.
I did not ask about him posting.
I asked if he complains about you posting pictures that clearly show you are a couple that have him tagged in the post?
You think having an uncontrolled crying fit due to a ptsd flashback or a nightmare is unfair because it affects the partner?
I wake up screaming and crying some nights which of course wakes my partner up. So by your definition because my crying fit affects my partner directly I’m being unfair.
Yikes.