She doesn't respect you. Get outta dodge. She's only doing this to you because she knows you like her more than she likes you, thus putting her in control of the relationship. To even tell her you're just bothered by it implies that you'd still stay with her and the disrespect. Flex your muscles and ghost her, youd be doing yourself a huge favor and maybe her too because consequences are there for us to learn and improve
Give the baby up for adoption if you insist on not aborting it. If you’re not ready for a kid then don’t have one – it’s not the child’s fault that you were too careless to have them at a logical time in your life nor is it their fault that you don’t have the decency to terminate the pregnancy despite the fact that you can’t guarantee them the childhood they deserve (stable home, finances, etc). Having a kid is not having a like having a pet and even pets are planned for. Smh
Then he either endangered the lives of countless people driving drunk, or he gotbher to her location and decided to stay with the drunk girl and get drunk himself.
Yes the guys can get drunk to and be a victim of SA themselves. But in this situation he either put everyone in danger with his actions and is a terrible person. Took advantage of a drunk girl and is a terrible person. Or drove her home and seeing her drunk decided to also get himself drunk and not just leave and go home and is a terrible person.
You can try to make it work, but if you do there need to be changes. It doesn't matter her friend has no romantic or sexual relations with her. He needs to also act like he hasn't. This means no spending nights together unless you are also involved. If she wants to habg out with thar's fine, but not at a codt of your time together. Your time together means time together without him.
I don't know if there is something more to their relation, if you don't want to put effort to make your relationship with her eork you can break up sure.
I won’t touch on any of that except I’m glad you’re diagnosed and knowledgeable about who you are. That’s the biggest step towards being the best person you can be.
But on the hair straightener: most likely he’s just a guy who is unaware or unworried about things in his bathroom drawer.
I separated my wife who left the country. I kept our house and most of our things. I thought I took most of her pictures down, but started having new women come over. One commented that my wife was pretty and I was confused. There was a little photobooth series of pictures clipped above the dresser that I use every single day. I had no idea it was there. In plain sight.
When my wife and I started dating she found a hair tie which wasn’t hers right on my bedside table, it has been there for probably four months from a previous girl I dated. I was not waiting for the girl, or using it to think about her. I simply was completely clueless that things lying out in the open existed.
Most likely he had a gf who got ready at gods house and left those things there, and he never thinks about them. Maybe he’ll open that drawer and think for a moment “oh I should give these back to her” And then he shuts the door and doesn’t think about her or them ever again
If there was a glitch with google, it would show her there more than once. To show her exactly at the suspected AP’s address, on just one occasion, is too suspicious.
Right, I'm sure you have lots of stories from school you can share when you told your entire social circle to 'fuck off' because a girl you liked didn't like you quite as much.
Who said anything about telling his entire social circle to fuck off?
Hobbies aren’t meant to make people feel less important. You’re a moron.
She doesn't respect you. Get outta dodge. She's only doing this to you because she knows you like her more than she likes you, thus putting her in control of the relationship. To even tell her you're just bothered by it implies that you'd still stay with her and the disrespect. Flex your muscles and ghost her, youd be doing yourself a huge favor and maybe her too because consequences are there for us to learn and improve
Give the baby up for adoption if you insist on not aborting it. If you’re not ready for a kid then don’t have one – it’s not the child’s fault that you were too careless to have them at a logical time in your life nor is it their fault that you don’t have the decency to terminate the pregnancy despite the fact that you can’t guarantee them the childhood they deserve (stable home, finances, etc). Having a kid is not having a like having a pet and even pets are planned for. Smh
Then he either endangered the lives of countless people driving drunk, or he gotbher to her location and decided to stay with the drunk girl and get drunk himself.
Yes the guys can get drunk to and be a victim of SA themselves. But in this situation he either put everyone in danger with his actions and is a terrible person. Took advantage of a drunk girl and is a terrible person. Or drove her home and seeing her drunk decided to also get himself drunk and not just leave and go home and is a terrible person.
You can try to make it work, but if you do there need to be changes. It doesn't matter her friend has no romantic or sexual relations with her. He needs to also act like he hasn't. This means no spending nights together unless you are also involved. If she wants to habg out with thar's fine, but not at a codt of your time together. Your time together means time together without him.
I don't know if there is something more to their relation, if you don't want to put effort to make your relationship with her eork you can break up sure.
I won’t touch on any of that except I’m glad you’re diagnosed and knowledgeable about who you are. That’s the biggest step towards being the best person you can be.
But on the hair straightener: most likely he’s just a guy who is unaware or unworried about things in his bathroom drawer.
I separated my wife who left the country. I kept our house and most of our things. I thought I took most of her pictures down, but started having new women come over. One commented that my wife was pretty and I was confused. There was a little photobooth series of pictures clipped above the dresser that I use every single day. I had no idea it was there. In plain sight.
When my wife and I started dating she found a hair tie which wasn’t hers right on my bedside table, it has been there for probably four months from a previous girl I dated. I was not waiting for the girl, or using it to think about her. I simply was completely clueless that things lying out in the open existed.
Most likely he had a gf who got ready at gods house and left those things there, and he never thinks about them. Maybe he’ll open that drawer and think for a moment “oh I should give these back to her” And then he shuts the door and doesn’t think about her or them ever again
If there was a glitch with google, it would show her there more than once. To show her exactly at the suspected AP’s address, on just one occasion, is too suspicious.
Right, I'm sure you have lots of stories from school you can share when you told your entire social circle to 'fuck off' because a girl you liked didn't like you quite as much.
Who said anything about telling his entire social circle to fuck off?
Oh yikes, yeah good idea. Let's just share a hotel room with a woman I've never met and forget to include my girlfriend. I'm sure this will go well