NTA. GF has become a fake friend. Your role as the whipping girl has to end. How you do it is your decision, but IMO it's best if you just avoid her. No need to have it out with her. That's your decision, though. Last but not least, when you are out drinking with her and she becomes dependent, you become responsible for her safety. Legal issues can be attached if the meeting results in harm to her. Your happiness is what you should be concentrating on because it's what you deserve. Best wishes.
tell him when you feel ready and when you think itยดs the right time
Mate, you are delusional. You have been taken for a ride in every way. Shut it down
NTA. GF has become a fake friend. Your role as the whipping girl has to end. How you do it is your decision, but IMO it's best if you just avoid her. No need to have it out with her. That's your decision, though. Last but not least, when you are out drinking with her and she becomes dependent, you become responsible for her safety. Legal issues can be attached if the meeting results in harm to her. Your happiness is what you should be concentrating on because it's what you deserve. Best wishes.