Yeah..unfortunately I think you're right. I was hoping someone might say something I hadn't considered that would change that, but instead I've mostly gotten shame, insults, and people jumping to weird conclusions.
“I would normally never look through something like that”
And yet…you did. That makes you a pretty big jerk in this situation, but you didn't come here for moral judgement because there's plenty to go around.
If your fiancee isn't happy with a one plus carat ring, I don't know what to tell you. That's a pretty big level of materialism and that would bother me a lot. But at this point, you really should come clean to her about reading her journal because that was REALLY not OK.
So not only was your wife taking care of YOUR mother, HER friend turns around after getting cheated on HERSELF…. And cuddles with her friends husband. I wonder why you have to create a pact.
Sounds like you're being trickle truthed and the only thing that she tells you is what you already know. It doesn't bode well and she obviously hiding something.
Don’t buy a new home until you decide your future. Check with a lawyer, it could be considered marital property and she would get half.
Yeah..unfortunately I think you're right. I was hoping someone might say something I hadn't considered that would change that, but instead I've mostly gotten shame, insults, and people jumping to weird conclusions.
Appreciate your confirmation.
“I would normally never look through something like that”
And yet…you did. That makes you a pretty big jerk in this situation, but you didn't come here for moral judgement because there's plenty to go around.
If your fiancee isn't happy with a one plus carat ring, I don't know what to tell you. That's a pretty big level of materialism and that would bother me a lot. But at this point, you really should come clean to her about reading her journal because that was REALLY not OK.
So not only was your wife taking care of YOUR mother, HER friend turns around after getting cheated on HERSELF…. And cuddles with her friends husband. I wonder why you have to create a pact.
Wow
You’re clearly unhinged.
Sounds like you're being trickle truthed and the only thing that she tells you is what you already know. It doesn't bode well and she obviously hiding something.