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Sorry, my post didn’t edit properly but I added this for context: OP has already tried multiple forms of birth control, compromised, and had multiple kids. Her body can’t handle another pregnancy.
If they have unprotected sex, she is at risk. Her partner refuses to wear a condom.
It isn’t withholding or weaponizing sex- it’s taking the risk of pregnancy out of the equation unless he chooses to protect his partner by wearing a condom. It isn’t weaponizing it if you insist on having sex SAFELY.
It’s all good. What I meant by that was that your bf’s behavior is suspect as to whether or not he actually respects you. Something is going on because he is not caring about you the way he should be, and I worry that he and the rest of the group could be in on not wanting you around. He could be cheating, never say never, but I don’t get those vibes. I get the vibes that he’s pushing you off to the side, and I worry if it’s intentional.
You shouldn't get so defensive when your assumptions aren't correct.
Half these texts were to women too…
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Sorry, my post didn’t edit properly but I added this for context: OP has already tried multiple forms of birth control, compromised, and had multiple kids. Her body can’t handle another pregnancy.
If they have unprotected sex, she is at risk. Her partner refuses to wear a condom.
It isn’t withholding or weaponizing sex- it’s taking the risk of pregnancy out of the equation unless he chooses to protect his partner by wearing a condom. It isn’t weaponizing it if you insist on having sex SAFELY.
It’s all good. What I meant by that was that your bf’s behavior is suspect as to whether or not he actually respects you. Something is going on because he is not caring about you the way he should be, and I worry that he and the rest of the group could be in on not wanting you around. He could be cheating, never say never, but I don’t get those vibes. I get the vibes that he’s pushing you off to the side, and I worry if it’s intentional.
I agree with bringing it up in conversation casually.