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  1. He’s been trying to force me to change the way I dress and the way I wear my hair,

    Red flag – Controlling

    He also gets mad at me for not having sex with him and will go as far as to threaten to cheat on me if I don’t put out.

    Red flag – Rape

    It’s even worse because I have chronic utis so it physically hurts.

    Sometimes genetics can cause a person to be predisposed to UTI's.

    Bidets, hypoallergenic unscented wipes, a tea with chamomile once a day at least.

    Some people also allow back to front penetration. They shouldn't do that.

    I don’t have a job because he doesn’t want me to,

    Red Flag – he doesn't want you to because it makes you less dependent on him and less dependent means less likely to be manipulated and controlled aka financial abuse.

    Anyway, two days ago he threatened to cheat on me again after I said no to having sex with him three times.

    Red Flag – Rape

    Insurances usually cover Plan B. If you have an insurance plan.

    Keep all text between you two.

    Have him admit to raping you.

    Once he has admitted to raping you if you don't have anything else to worry about such as a dog go to a shelter.

  2. You owe her nothing. Nothing at all.

    First thing you need to do is realize, it is not you. It is them. Find someone else and focus on work and never look back. But you should have the belief that they are not going to treat each other well.

  3. I just find him so pathetic. Like, being obsessed for so long with a fling you've briefly dated is peak “grass is always greener on the other side”. Meaning, if he were ever with here, he'd probably be unhappy. The one who had rose-colored glasses view of love is him, not you.

    Frankly, good riddance. Let him beg on her doorstep and be left alone, you don't have to put up with this teenager behavior on a grown man. Dude's been watching too many romcons.

    Looks like divorce is the only option left in here, and it's not an easy one, but at least you'll be free from someone who refuses to love you but still wants to linger, because he's too afraid to be alone. Don't trust any of his excuses, he's just childish.

    Glad you finally discovered. Trust your gut instincts. Good luck and wish you have better than this in the future. Never settle for this.

  4. No way, This would put her in an uncomfortable position and you would be asking her to risk her career for you. If you even like her in the least bit, leave her alone. She is going to have to be in a position of knowing this and still having to be your professor.

  5. Only read the first sentence and asked myself: Why would you do this to yourself? Once a cheater always a cheater.

  6. Sounds like you should get the divorce honestly. You’re clearly thinking about it. Also 13 years is a lot of time to spend with an animal, so giving it up now would be pretty cruel, since your husband could be really attached, even if the animals are annoying. Responsible pet ownership takes time and energy though on his part. I hear where you’re coming from and your husband should def do better, but where would the dogs go? Most people won’t adopt an old dog, so it would be a death sentence at most shelters. Depending on his attachment if the dogs were given up he’ll probably resent you any ways. Even if my animals were maniacs, I lived with them for 13 years and somebody gave me an ultimatum I’d go with the animals. If they’re trained then there has to be a reason they’re shitting and pissing on the floor. Like people said there could be a deeper health issue the vet is missing. 13 years is an old dog depending on the breed. Dude should 100% take responsibility, try to find a solution to clean up the messes and find ways for them to not get past barricades.

    Clearly you want an out, it’s probably deeper than the dogs, that’s just the cherry on top of the proverbial shit sandwich, thus the reason you’re looking for validation online.

  7. The person even asked me to not even flirt with people and wait for them.

    Uh… a non-partner has no right to request this. Doing so is disrespectful as they clearly have more liberty than you.

    What I’m confused about is how people deal with this feeling or if it is even a valid feeling.

    You are being fucked over and that’s what that feeling is. It’s a very valid feeling.

    I don’t want to act rashly or say something i’d regret, but what should I do in this situation?

    What would there be to regret? She seems to know that she was more included and ready to be physical with other people. That’s okay for an adult to do, but to string another person along for one’s own convenience is silly and whatever your response is will be more valid than the bullshit she’s been pulling off… especially if she genuinely expects y’all to be “cool about it”.

  8. I mean, if I am having a birthday celebration at a bar and I ask someone to leave, and they refuse because it's a “public place”, I am pretty sure I probably wouldn't stay friends with them. That's just being childish, right up there with a kid saying “it's a free country!” when asked to not do something annoying.

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