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ok i have a lot of experience here. I’m 37M monogamy is for me and my ex wife is my ex wife because she wanted poly. It started similar to your situation, she brought up poly here and there as a purely in theory type thing, i told her it wasn’t for me. Then she brought it up more seriously later (pretty sure she had some specific people in mind and just didn’t tell me) and i told her i was pretty shocked she’d even ask, as we were married, monogamous for 7 years and just sprung it on me. She said she’d drop it and monogamy was totally fine.
Then a couple of years later she tells me she needs poly. I told her she knows my position on it so… there’s the door. She had even printed out a bunch of information on how to be poly and was going to explain to me how it would go. I asked what about our wedding vows? What about all we’ve talked about it? She said marriage was stupid and possessive etc etc and i was in shock. I told her to please leave. We ended up separating and divorcing.
So let me break your situation down: your girlfriend doesn’t respect your boundaries. She knows how you feel about it but went as far as finding a specific couple and then guilting you and calling you possessive to get you to do what she wanted. Then the couple had the balls to get involved and tell you you’re immature. All of this is absolutely inappropriate, people that think healthy monogamy is about possession are absolute fucking morons. They don’t understand that it’s not about possession but about mutual respect, boundaries, and love for a person (instead of people).
Poly between two consenting people is fine (though i still think 99% of those relationships are doomed), coerced poly will not only fail every time but is just downright inappropriate. So let me tell you how this will play out: your girlfriend will go back to being a seemingly normal human while wanting a poly setup, one day she’ll either cross boundaries or ask you again to break yours and guilt you. She may walk it back again when she sees you will leave. It will happen until you get sick of it or she says she needs it and you all will break up.
My recommendation: skip to the end and break up NOW. She’s already crossed so many lines, i’d argue emotionally cheating already, and then everyone involved had the balls to call you the bad guy and act like they are “enlightened” when really they’re just controlling assholes. Polyamory is not sexuality it is a lifestyle choice. This pisses me off more than anything, my ex wife acted like she didn’t make the choice of poly but that it was like being queer, it is NOT, it is a choice.
Leave. Run. Let her know why. She’ll come crying back or say she didn’t mean it. She did. It will only get worse and take years off your life. I spent 10 years with a woman that didn’t respect my boundaries and ended up dating in my late thirties, trust me when i say that’s not fun. Skip to the end of the story and just go, there are people that will respect your boundaries out there and not cheat on you. You’re still young. Best of luck to you.
I don’t usually say this, but I agree with your boyfriend. It’s one thing to just randomly get sick, it’s another to do something that you know will make you sick. I’m allergic to mustard, I made deviled eggs and ate them, my partner didn’t stop me (I just get itchy mouth, hives, and stomach aches), but I also didn’t complain because I knew what I was signing up for. Why would I expect my partner to comfort me when I knowingly ate something I’m allergic to? It makes 0 sense to me.
The problem is that obviously both of us made mistakes and hurt each other, but I believe it's a decision to stay in touch and try to be better. He lost patience but after all of this I thought this can be a sort of “challenge” to talk everything through and win each other again.
You cannot dictate how she deals with her situation. You can draw a boundary around you own behavior. Like this: “I can't go with you to your family function, because your family harbors your abuser and I think it's wrong.” What is not ok is if you were to attend the function and then act out, as you've been specifically asked not to do. Choose between attending to emotionally support your partner, or not attending to make sure you're able to abide by their wishes.
ok i have a lot of experience here. I’m 37M monogamy is for me and my ex wife is my ex wife because she wanted poly. It started similar to your situation, she brought up poly here and there as a purely in theory type thing, i told her it wasn’t for me. Then she brought it up more seriously later (pretty sure she had some specific people in mind and just didn’t tell me) and i told her i was pretty shocked she’d even ask, as we were married, monogamous for 7 years and just sprung it on me. She said she’d drop it and monogamy was totally fine.
Then a couple of years later she tells me she needs poly. I told her she knows my position on it so… there’s the door. She had even printed out a bunch of information on how to be poly and was going to explain to me how it would go. I asked what about our wedding vows? What about all we’ve talked about it? She said marriage was stupid and possessive etc etc and i was in shock. I told her to please leave. We ended up separating and divorcing.
So let me break your situation down: your girlfriend doesn’t respect your boundaries. She knows how you feel about it but went as far as finding a specific couple and then guilting you and calling you possessive to get you to do what she wanted. Then the couple had the balls to get involved and tell you you’re immature. All of this is absolutely inappropriate, people that think healthy monogamy is about possession are absolute fucking morons. They don’t understand that it’s not about possession but about mutual respect, boundaries, and love for a person (instead of people).
Poly between two consenting people is fine (though i still think 99% of those relationships are doomed), coerced poly will not only fail every time but is just downright inappropriate. So let me tell you how this will play out: your girlfriend will go back to being a seemingly normal human while wanting a poly setup, one day she’ll either cross boundaries or ask you again to break yours and guilt you. She may walk it back again when she sees you will leave. It will happen until you get sick of it or she says she needs it and you all will break up.
My recommendation: skip to the end and break up NOW. She’s already crossed so many lines, i’d argue emotionally cheating already, and then everyone involved had the balls to call you the bad guy and act like they are “enlightened” when really they’re just controlling assholes. Polyamory is not sexuality it is a lifestyle choice. This pisses me off more than anything, my ex wife acted like she didn’t make the choice of poly but that it was like being queer, it is NOT, it is a choice.
Leave. Run. Let her know why. She’ll come crying back or say she didn’t mean it. She did. It will only get worse and take years off your life. I spent 10 years with a woman that didn’t respect my boundaries and ended up dating in my late thirties, trust me when i say that’s not fun. Skip to the end of the story and just go, there are people that will respect your boundaries out there and not cheat on you. You’re still young. Best of luck to you.
Bad vibes. Block.
I don’t usually say this, but I agree with your boyfriend. It’s one thing to just randomly get sick, it’s another to do something that you know will make you sick. I’m allergic to mustard, I made deviled eggs and ate them, my partner didn’t stop me (I just get itchy mouth, hives, and stomach aches), but I also didn’t complain because I knew what I was signing up for. Why would I expect my partner to comfort me when I knowingly ate something I’m allergic to? It makes 0 sense to me.
The problem is that obviously both of us made mistakes and hurt each other, but I believe it's a decision to stay in touch and try to be better. He lost patience but after all of this I thought this can be a sort of “challenge” to talk everything through and win each other again.
Your the side chick ?. Big red flag I would be ending things.
You cannot dictate how she deals with her situation. You can draw a boundary around you own behavior. Like this: “I can't go with you to your family function, because your family harbors your abuser and I think it's wrong.” What is not ok is if you were to attend the function and then act out, as you've been specifically asked not to do. Choose between attending to emotionally support your partner, or not attending to make sure you're able to abide by their wishes.