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I mean, he still wants to date you even after knowing you're 30. Is this the hill you want to die on? Idk I think it's a goofy mindset of him but clearly he isn't sticking to it. My husband normally dated older before we met, but hey this worked out.
Think about it: It isn't that difficult being nice, is it?
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Then never brings up that new friend.
Break away from that group if they ask why just tell them your busy.
And your no longer into drinking games
Your lucky you were not raped
You were assaulted by one of them.
And why didn't you sleep on the couch?
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I mean, he still wants to date you even after knowing you're 30. Is this the hill you want to die on? Idk I think it's a goofy mindset of him but clearly he isn't sticking to it. My husband normally dated older before we met, but hey this worked out.
Think about it: It isn't that difficult being nice, is it?
Your boyfriend isn't being nice to you. He knows he is not being nice you to because you have told him repeatedly, and yet he is still actively going out of his way to act in a way that is just not nice.
You have already discussed the issue with him multiple times, and he only manages to keep his hurtful comments to himself for a week before he goes back to making fun of you. I think that should tell you everything you need to know about what the future holds if you decide to stay with him. You will be having this same discussion over and over again, and every single time, you will be just as disappointed as the last time he reverted back to his usual behaviour.
You are not you did exactly the right thing. They just didn’t like it.