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You described being a new couple…..
I have no idea how you thought this was different than being together.
You met on a dating app and had at least one date. You weren't even friends to start a FWB situation.
He asked you out multiple and you kept denying him. Why are you surprised he lost interest?
You should use this opportunity to reflect on the way you treat people because they are not toys.
You are 24 years old, maybe it's time to stop playing immature teenage games.
You are trauma bonded and he is always going to be an abuser, I hope you realize that before it’s too late.
Oof. I’m sorry I couldn’t get past two parts of this post, first, a 24 yo dating an 18 yo they have known for longer than that. Just sounds like grooming and biding their time.
But then add to that “I know he has a thing for Asian girls.”
OP, you’re 18 so you are probably not looking to be told to do something you don’t want to do, especially where your request is actually for your cousin. But please consider this advice.
Take a break from this relationship with this boy. If it’s meant to be, he will still want to date in a few years. Observe and reflect on him too. Has he had previous relationships? We’re they all the significantly younger girls (more than 3~4 year age difference or consistently at or under 18)? We’re they almost exclusively Asian?
If any of these show a pattern, that’s a huge red flag. The first that he is only into young girls. Which is ick, but also a sign you could be being groomed, and also a sign he doesn’t really like you he just likes young girls. The second is you’re his Asian fetish. It’s not about you as a person just your features. Do you really want to be with someone else who is with you for those reasons?
I say this with good intention. At 18 you are still emotionally learning and growing. A 24 year old is too (especially if they’re as stunted as I suspect he is), which is actually worse for you bc that’s a harder situation for you to learn in. And there is an inherent power dynamic that goes against you, and can really be a problem.
Keep an eye on this subreddit. Notice how many problems correlate to couples with large age differences, particularly with younger girls.
Please consider setting this relationship aside for a few years, and if you want to date do so with someone closer to your age.
Mate I completely understand not wanting to make it real. Parents are supposed to just live forever and it’s a shock to your reality when they don’t.
It’s very hot to comprehend when you first find out, especially if you have a complicated relationship – you have to face the fact that you may never get closure on some things, or have to push for it in an already traumatic time.
Just be prepared for the fact that once you do start to accept it you are going to start grieving before he does pass, and grief is something no one can control or understand even if you’ve experienced it before.
Be kind to yourself if you find yourself reacting to life in unexpected or overly emotional ways. There is a reason for the term “mad with grief”, it can quite literally make you feel crazy.
I’m really happy that it works for you! I hope he can find someone who also wants that! I really could not move past that, so yes I left, which is the best choice for us both. I know he would’ve resented me if I had pushed for what he wasn’t comfortable with.
Wow, thank you so much, I appreciate the advice a lot! It just hurts to cut ties with someone who I care about deeply, I just want to know why he's acting this way, but I'm scared to confront him
Hey there, thank you for your advice ! I failed to mention that the goal would be to get married not too long after, one year at the latest after the engagement.
I very much appreciate the advice. Rest assured I have no intention of having kids for a long time and I’ve always maintained a mindset of only using my own condoms + never leaving them unattended. I take every measure possible to avoid getting baby trapped, even with someone I otherwise trust completely. Just heard too many horror stories about it.
In her current state I don’t see her as fit to be my wife or the mother of my kids, but I also understand that 20 is relatively young in terms of adulthood so I want to give her a chance to get the ball rolling before hastily making the decision that we’re incompatible. Ultimately the responsibility lies in me to raise these concerns to her, because a lot of these comments have helped me realize that I’m enabling her current state by continuing to let the relationship function as it is right now.
I agree