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He’s wanting permission to cheat. The whole staying together until the kids are out of school is him trying to keep up appearances. Nope. I’d be filing for divorce if it was me.
Would it be evidence though? Unless she's kicking and screaming in that video, which a lot of rape victims are too terrified to do, anyone could basically say that it was consensual. I mean, it would prove that something sexual indeed happened, but that's about it.
Do NOT under any circumstances help him by giving him money. You’ll just help him continue be this way. He can’t keep relying on everyone for help when he keeps messing up and clearly has no control nor seem interested in having it. He is NOT your responsibility nor should he make you feel like he is. He is a grown adult that is acting like a child thinking everyone will take care of his messes. Well guess what, time to fucking face the consequences.
Also..why are you housing a man-child that doesn’t love you and is clearly becoming a financial and emotional burden ? You are constantly fighting and you are struggling to keep a healthy stable life because of this idiot. Kick him out. He is not your problem.
You wrote a post about how you're upset that you walked in on your siblings together in a hotel room, and you're confused as to how some people jumped to incest?
The stupid thing is buying a house with someone who is still married to someone else, not buying a house with someone you're not engaged or married to. My partner and I are not married but we sorted everything out on paper, all our property is in both our names, with our share of everything going to the kids when we die.
But then I'm not the kind of partner who would expect my ex to pay my bills either.
I don't know if this will help much, but you must understand that it is not your fault. If she is giving a version that makes her look good and you look bad, logically they are going to be on her side, not yours because they are her friends. You know what you did and what she did, if she wants to make you look bad just ignore the comments, don't be like her.
I know there's no future if he won't reconsider, and he's shown that he isn't willing to. Tried to see if he'd be open to talking again, but he said only if I changed my mind
It is victim blaming, and his mentality wants me to stop living because of what-ifs. I even explained to him that I don't do any crazy circus stretches at the gym and just regular cooldown stretches after running treadmill, but he didn't seem to care. The hypothetical kids comment really set off a red flag too. I'm not changing my stance for him, but it just feels like I'm always getting sexualized whenever I try to share my passion
I think for me it's more the worry that I will constantly need to take care of her (either literally, career/money wise or via teaching her/helping her). I don't mind it so much right now but it's making me hesitant because I don't know how I would feel about it long-term. I would definitely prefer having a more equal/partners dynamic but all other aspects of the relationship are so good that I'm not sure if it's worth breaking things off just for that.
I don't really think less of her, although I do admit when she thought America was in Europe I was a bit shocked.
i can't tell if you're being sarcastic but i know she wants to trust me and believe in me but can't because of my actions (it's not any cheating realted stuff) so wants some space away from me. ill try and fix myself before i bother her with myself
He’s wanting permission to cheat. The whole staying together until the kids are out of school is him trying to keep up appearances. Nope. I’d be filing for divorce if it was me.
Would it be evidence though? Unless she's kicking and screaming in that video, which a lot of rape victims are too terrified to do, anyone could basically say that it was consensual. I mean, it would prove that something sexual indeed happened, but that's about it.
Why not ask your therapist who knows you much better than we do?
Do NOT under any circumstances help him by giving him money. You’ll just help him continue be this way. He can’t keep relying on everyone for help when he keeps messing up and clearly has no control nor seem interested in having it. He is NOT your responsibility nor should he make you feel like he is. He is a grown adult that is acting like a child thinking everyone will take care of his messes. Well guess what, time to fucking face the consequences.
Also..why are you housing a man-child that doesn’t love you and is clearly becoming a financial and emotional burden ? You are constantly fighting and you are struggling to keep a healthy stable life because of this idiot. Kick him out. He is not your problem.
You wrote a post about how you're upset that you walked in on your siblings together in a hotel room, and you're confused as to how some people jumped to incest?
The stupid thing is buying a house with someone who is still married to someone else, not buying a house with someone you're not engaged or married to. My partner and I are not married but we sorted everything out on paper, all our property is in both our names, with our share of everything going to the kids when we die.
But then I'm not the kind of partner who would expect my ex to pay my bills either.
I don't know if this will help much, but you must understand that it is not your fault. If she is giving a version that makes her look good and you look bad, logically they are going to be on her side, not yours because they are her friends. You know what you did and what she did, if she wants to make you look bad just ignore the comments, don't be like her.
Now don't be too hasty, they probably teach William Carlos Williams
This Is Just To Say
I have eaten
the plums
that were
in the icebox
and which
you probably
wanted me
to make you for breakfast
I want a divorce
you are
abusive
so controlling
and so cold.
Yes!!!! I learned a long time ago that dating a project was a waste of time and energy!
I know there's no future if he won't reconsider, and he's shown that he isn't willing to. Tried to see if he'd be open to talking again, but he said only if I changed my mind
It is victim blaming, and his mentality wants me to stop living because of what-ifs. I even explained to him that I don't do any crazy circus stretches at the gym and just regular cooldown stretches after running treadmill, but he didn't seem to care. The hypothetical kids comment really set off a red flag too. I'm not changing my stance for him, but it just feels like I'm always getting sexualized whenever I try to share my passion
I think for me it's more the worry that I will constantly need to take care of her (either literally, career/money wise or via teaching her/helping her). I don't mind it so much right now but it's making me hesitant because I don't know how I would feel about it long-term. I would definitely prefer having a more equal/partners dynamic but all other aspects of the relationship are so good that I'm not sure if it's worth breaking things off just for that.
I don't really think less of her, although I do admit when she thought America was in Europe I was a bit shocked.
i can't tell if you're being sarcastic but i know she wants to trust me and believe in me but can't because of my actions (it's not any cheating realted stuff) so wants some space away from me. ill try and fix myself before i bother her with myself