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You’re totally right. Hooking up with the authentic and genuine Jake will give you a bad rep. Go crawling for attention and approval from Brad and his pals. I’m sure it’s going to be a fulfilling experience and you can count that they’ll treat you with due respect.
Jake doesn’t deserve you!
And how many more years of feeling used and “icky” after sex is she supposed to endure for the sake of “we're already 5 years in”? I mean, I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years as well and I cannot begin to wrap my head around the idea of her needing to ask for the same thing over and over for the entire duration of our relationship and I somehow still manage to forget? After multiple conversations? At some point we need to consider that it's plain carelessness. Feeling gross every single time you have sex is 100% a reason to leave someone; especially when you have to plead with them to make a small change and they can't make it happen.
Never is a long time. I would say after marriage, you should be able to look through their phone if need be.
In some respects I am a very private person and value my privacy even married. For example, I do not allow my husband to come into the bathroom when I am using it, like if I am washing or using the toilet. However we have been together 27 years, married 24, and in all this time, YES there have been a few instances of me needing him to come in during these times. Maybe twice, no more than thrice.
So I would say respect your husband's need for privacy in this way but also tell him that there may come a time when he needs you to access his phone during your decades together, and he should be open to that. If he's not willing to EVER give you, as his wife, access to his phone for any reason then you have some considering to do before you marry him. You're the only one who can decide if this is a dealbreaker or not.
Did you mean to write that you said “It seems like you don't even like me”? If so, sure, that's not a great thing for you to have said, although I understand the urge to say that kind of thing – maybe because I've got depression. That kind of negativity can be naked. If it was just that in a vacuum and she responded poorly to it, or if she was just having trouble with you going through things, that'd be one thing. But every post you make about her has more red flags than the Canadian parliament. Here's an example: what you just described, about you not having a big overt reaction and her getting upset, is her making you perform for her. And if you don't perform well enough to make her feel good, she takes it out on you. That's a fucked up way for a person to be to another person. You don't deserve that!
I think your girlfriend might be a narcissist?
She makes you perform for her. She makes everything your fault. Her happiness is entirely in your hands. She has PTSD from your job, despite working as a resident doctor. She harasses people who wrong her using the legal system (classic narcissism, she can point to those as “Look, I filed a lawsuit against them!” as evidence it wasn't her wrongdoing). I know this is a cliche, I'm sure she's got good qualities and/or you've made mistakes and due to the nature of reddit they're not highlighted, but– please break up with her.
You truly, honestly do deserve better, friend. ? Stay strong.
You're a naïve young person who has given up EVERYTHING for a man who won't commit. Love is not enough, its not even nearly enough.
Is there trust and respect? Does he really respect and appreciate what you've given up for him?
Does he respect and uplift your support system or talk down to them because they 'wouldn't understand your relationship'?
Does he encourage you to grow and advance your career or is he making noises about you 'not needing to work'?
He's turned you into a bangmaid and baby sitter.
He doesn’t want more kids. He’s almost 50. You are extremely naive. You are not an old soul, you are being manipulated and think you have a clue about what’s going on when you absolutely don’t.
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TLDR: My Fiancee and I almost make the same amount of money (I make a little more) and she expects me (as the man) to pay for everything, which I don't mind completely, as I have expected that of myself and prepared for my whole life, but then she also makes demands about living away from my work and business (to be close to her family) as well as making it seem like I don't make enough money.
I recently got engaged to my fiancee a few months ago and she has a job and I have a job + a business. I make a bit more than her. I work in software + I co-own a construction company w/ a friend who is a GC. She works in luxury retail. Overall, my goal is to save up for a house and invest in our future together. I want us to own the place we live in and build equity. I was in pretty good shape for that and have been working pretty very hot for it. However, in our culture, weddings are often large and extravagant and there is pressure from both of our families to have a big wedding and I am going to be paying for most of it (there's multiple “events” in our weddings where some the girls fam hosts, and some the guys fam hosts). The ones we are hosting, I am paying for it and it's going to be north of maybe $30-40K (just what I am paying). I also had a pretty bad injury last year that required surgery and I am still paying medical bills from it and have doctors visits for it that are not cheap, even w/ insurance. Overall, I cannot buy a house since my savings will be eaten up so I have to rent. Ok. Fine. No problem, one step at a time, right?
Overall, that is my situation. I am a little oldschool as I have always prepared myself to be able to take care of myself and my family once I am married. To be honest, I feel like I can do it, I make enough money. But the issue is I feel there is a lack of sympathy and understanding on her part. For example, her parents live about 2 hours from where I live! and she makes consistent demands about moving to the “middle.” I told her that is not possible as I have my business and my job both are which are around me. Also, She expects me to provide for us 100%, and I said that's okay, but we have to live! here so I can do so… and she seems to not like this and it is brought up over and over again. The other day I asked her what she viewed her role was in the relationship and she didn't have an answer. She often says “if you need help (in terms of finances) I'll help you.” I guess my problem with that is A) if she did help me financially, it wouldn't be helping ME, it would be helping US as we're married, we're ONE team and B) she almost makes it seems like that I don't make enough money to maintain her lifestyle I guess? This is just the feeling I get from my gut. For example, today, I had a conversation with her about potentially getting a 2bed apartment instead of 1. I said, with what I need to save so we can get a house next year, a 2bed is a little out of budget, so I asked if would she be willing to chip in a few 100 dollars to the rent (all I asked). She then said that “to me, that is the guy's responsibility” and that if she does this, she doesn't want “me to be dependent on her financial assistance.” … I mean, that just really threw me off… like we're about to get married and I feel like even though she says shes going to “help,” and yes, I can provide, I feel like if there was a situation… I can't really rely on her. I also feel there's a complete lack of empathy here and after all, we're in this position because we're financing a huge wedding that I have spoken against but it just keeps getting ignored or I have things said to me like “you only get married once” or “you have to celebrate properly.”
There are more small details and examples, but I'll leave it at this. Overall, I just feel so disheartened and it just feels like there's so much pressure to deliver… It's already tough being able to afford everything, but I work very nude and I have always tried to make sure I can provide for a family. How should I approach speaking with her about this? Can I please get advice on how to tackle this situation?
Do you like relationships with drama? Where you never know when your gf is going to flip out and randomly block you?