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To be fair, I partly agree that your SIL should have had this conversation before. It's bizarre to come out with your partner in hand, knowing that your parents are probably bigots.
SIL should have talked to them. They would have had their meltdown. And then your SIL should go no contact and online her life without this bigotry.
I get what your Husband means. But if there's deeper homophobia, then that's quite irreconcilable.
People don’t go to Taco Bell because it’s “Mexican Food.” They go because it’s Taco Bell. Panda Express isn’t “Chinese Food.” It’s Panda Express. It’s fast food.
Your girlfriend is ridiculous.
This is too vague. How long do you plan on LDR? What steps have you made to ensure healthy communication? What are your plans to be together? How often do you expect to see each other? Do you have a phone/FaceTime plan? You need to talk with him and work these things out to find out your answer on if it is feasible. A lot of long distance doesn't work but the ones that do, there is usually a light at the end of the tunnel for them.
STFU
I’m just going to point out. He is an engineer. (I am one too). We have a nude time being human sometimes.
Literally, I have my husband, and a friend from childhood that lives on the other side of the country. Last time I made a friend, she turned into a stalker.
For your BIL, ego and pride can really get in the way when someone seems overly competent. From his POV, your husband is a high earner, does charity work, is a DIY master, and the list goes on. Your BIL probably won’t ask for help to get off of a sinking boat if he has to ask your husband.
And your parents might be picking up on BIL’s insecurity and are trying to speak kindly of him. Often we give attention to the squeaky wheel and ignore the people who quietly just get the job done. Never realizing that they need appreciation and acknowledgement as well.
Because we tend to have our heads in the clouds or hyper focus on a topic, engineers are well known for lacking social skills. Sometimes we see more of a friendship than is actually there, and we miss red flags all of the time.
Things you can do. Speak positively of your husband to your parents. Tell them of the cool things he does. If they hear about it, they will repeat it.
Otherwise, just love him. You and the kids will do more to give him a sense of community than anything else. He will always be overly passionate about some topics, and that will put some people off.
My only caution is that you both should work on open and clear communication. More often than not, engineers don’t seem to understand the importance of communication. I like to recommend “crucial conversations” as a great starting resource for improving communication. Especially for us engineers. It breaks down a lot of social situations into helpful step by step equations that are easier for an analytical mind to digest.