You’re right, and I didn’t think of it that way. I had been focusing so much on the SA that I didn’t realise that it’s the behaviour prior to that that is not acceptable.
ADHD doesn’t keep you from folding your clothes. He is using you. He’s using you as a placeholder for mommy. He’s being lazy because he knows he gets away with it. You don’t “understand” him, you enable him.
When a friend asks for help, if you are a decent human you actually give advice in the best interests of said friend instead of manipulating the situation for yourself. That said for my own state of mind, when he sees who you are and breaks up- he doesn’t have a bunny does he. I don’t think you’re going to handle it well
Communication… Only thing u can do. U can try and seduce him but I mean maybe he should get checked. I can't go months with out sex. Id find someone on the side if it went months
Right? Likely just as expensive, if not more. Not to mention, if he is job is so good, why not pay for her healthcare AND buy a treadmill for the house? Win/Win.
She get a background check on you without your consent. Let her do that and let her go.
I mean, she doesn’t sound like she likes you much either. Maybe she’s acting terrible to drive you away? It seems to be working.
LoL. I am on an estrogen blocker because of breast cancer, so definitely going through it a bit sooner than I would have preferred.
I sent you a message about some advice. I’ve been in your shoes and it fucked me up royally.
You’re right, and I didn’t think of it that way. I had been focusing so much on the SA that I didn’t realise that it’s the behaviour prior to that that is not acceptable.
ADHD doesn’t keep you from folding your clothes. He is using you. He’s using you as a placeholder for mommy. He’s being lazy because he knows he gets away with it. You don’t “understand” him, you enable him.
When a friend asks for help, if you are a decent human you actually give advice in the best interests of said friend instead of manipulating the situation for yourself. That said for my own state of mind, when he sees who you are and breaks up- he doesn’t have a bunny does he. I don’t think you’re going to handle it well
He's 13 years older than you. Not a great situation.
Communication… Only thing u can do. U can try and seduce him but I mean maybe he should get checked. I can't go months with out sex. Id find someone on the side if it went months
Right? Likely just as expensive, if not more. Not to mention, if he is job is so good, why not pay for her healthcare AND buy a treadmill for the house? Win/Win.