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You are not ready to have sex – and absolutely should not be having sex without a condom. You might want to look into therapy about how embarrassed you are in front of your mother – I don’t know if you were raised in a super religious household- but there is nothing wrong with having sex – as long as it’s safe and consensual.
If he’s not yours, bail and call CPS (try to get pictures of drugs/paraphernalia for them)
If he is yours, get a lawyer (try to get pictures of drugs/paraphernalia for them) work with your lawyer for best time to bail and rescue your son from her
Can you read? I'm thinking no, because none of that has anything to do with what I said.
Nobody presumed him to be an equal part in him raising the child but you. Everyone else has acknowledged she has other options.
OP can want out and that's fair.
What he cannot do is want to force her out. He can't force her to abort or to give it up for adoption. If she wants to raise the baby, she can. The baby can have a different father, a lady father, a father who is in prison for rape, a gay father, an old father, or no father at all, and none of that is up to OP.
You seem to think her options are OP or nothing and no one, you are incorrect about that.
Fathers great and super important. That's why OPs wife should choose her baby's father figures carefully, if she chooses to have any. If she doesn't, that's her choice. The last damn thing she needs is another man who feels entitled to decide what she will and won't do with her body.
Yeah. I mean it’s easy for me to say as a mid 30’s guy who has been through some crazy ass relationships, but this is pretty simple…
She’s right. She’s a cunt. OP you’re young as hell and this hurts like hell I’m sure, but there isn’t anything left to do. She’ll just do more stuff like this in the future.
I think I'm going to do the same normalized thing. As for talking to G, the fight on Sunday was a bit of a microcosm of our issues. We'd both make mistakes and fight, but in the past year and a half he's gotten in the habit of sending me super rash and long texts that are so out of touch with his own behavior and reality. He makes huge eye rolls, snaps with a condescending tone, and is extremely belligerent, and it takes a lot of talking and work to make him understand my side.
He's a good guy, but he has little to no self awareness about his behavior, simply thinking that his intent is all that matters/no one knows what he's really feeling, etc. He's fine with admitting I can read him when he isn't mad at me or in conflict, but the second we ARE in conflict all of a sudden I read into everything in the worst possible light, I don't know him or his intent, etc. This past fight was a lot of delusional bullshit, and when I explained to him that his behavior, regardless of how he meant it or how he saw it, was making me walk on eggshells… he just said that's my own fault and just because I feel that way doesn't mean he's laying any eggshells out. Just complete denial about his culpability or his contribution to our tension.
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Small things like “he got a bit annoyed, but I snapped at him”. Do you get that? Reframing things. He only got a bit annoyed, but I snapped at him. Downplaying his own behavior and disregarding context. Typing this all out it must seem like I can't stand the guy, and it's kind of true. I'm torn between just letting all his nonsense go and writing it off as the behavior of a little baby, or not spending any more time on him at all. It's tough, but I have put in a lot of effort to talk, and try to get him to understand me. In my friend group im the intuitive, in touch with emotions one. I'm very good at reading people and situations, even if I make mistakes… I'm very confident in my appraisal of social conflicts and how people feel. But it's too much from him, so often.
This could be it. Maybe he looks like an alpha bro but doesn't act like one. Rather than worry about your partner, maybe you should take a harder look at the people who don't want to be friends with him and question where they are coming from.
Sounds like if his office is a bunch of alpha bros, then he probably doesn't laugh along with their inappropriate jokes and makes them feel like they are inappropriate. They wouldn't want someone who isn't going to want to go to strip clubs and hit on women who aren't their partners with them in Vegas, perhaps.
If your parents prefer guys who act like used car salesmen, that also kind of gives you an idea that they prefer guys who act a certain way.
Sounds like your partner found his friends when he found you.
Youre helping so fucking much thank you so much. One last question, do you think if I showed him the replies to this post (as its anonymous strangers and wont affect him in that sense), it would give what Im saying some more credibility? Or is that a terrible idea that will just cause another anrgument? I fear he will feel offended or defeatist. I just want him to see. So we can fix it. Or try. But, i have no credibility or any hope of getting through by myself
You are not ready to have sex – and absolutely should not be having sex without a condom. You might want to look into therapy about how embarrassed you are in front of your mother – I don’t know if you were raised in a super religious household- but there is nothing wrong with having sex – as long as it’s safe and consensual.
Take some of your sons hair and get a dna test
If he’s not yours, bail and call CPS (try to get pictures of drugs/paraphernalia for them)
If he is yours, get a lawyer (try to get pictures of drugs/paraphernalia for them) work with your lawyer for best time to bail and rescue your son from her
Can you read? I'm thinking no, because none of that has anything to do with what I said.
Nobody presumed him to be an equal part in him raising the child but you. Everyone else has acknowledged she has other options.
OP can want out and that's fair.
What he cannot do is want to force her out. He can't force her to abort or to give it up for adoption. If she wants to raise the baby, she can. The baby can have a different father, a lady father, a father who is in prison for rape, a gay father, an old father, or no father at all, and none of that is up to OP.
You seem to think her options are OP or nothing and no one, you are incorrect about that.
Fathers great and super important. That's why OPs wife should choose her baby's father figures carefully, if she chooses to have any. If she doesn't, that's her choice. The last damn thing she needs is another man who feels entitled to decide what she will and won't do with her body.
Yeah. I mean it’s easy for me to say as a mid 30’s guy who has been through some crazy ass relationships, but this is pretty simple…
She’s right. She’s a cunt. OP you’re young as hell and this hurts like hell I’m sure, but there isn’t anything left to do. She’ll just do more stuff like this in the future.
I think I'm going to do the same normalized thing. As for talking to G, the fight on Sunday was a bit of a microcosm of our issues. We'd both make mistakes and fight, but in the past year and a half he's gotten in the habit of sending me super rash and long texts that are so out of touch with his own behavior and reality. He makes huge eye rolls, snaps with a condescending tone, and is extremely belligerent, and it takes a lot of talking and work to make him understand my side.
He's a good guy, but he has little to no self awareness about his behavior, simply thinking that his intent is all that matters/no one knows what he's really feeling, etc. He's fine with admitting I can read him when he isn't mad at me or in conflict, but the second we ARE in conflict all of a sudden I read into everything in the worst possible light, I don't know him or his intent, etc. This past fight was a lot of delusional bullshit, and when I explained to him that his behavior, regardless of how he meant it or how he saw it, was making me walk on eggshells… he just said that's my own fault and just because I feel that way doesn't mean he's laying any eggshells out. Just complete denial about his culpability or his contribution to our tension.
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Small things like “he got a bit annoyed, but I snapped at him”. Do you get that? Reframing things. He only got a bit annoyed, but I snapped at him. Downplaying his own behavior and disregarding context. Typing this all out it must seem like I can't stand the guy, and it's kind of true. I'm torn between just letting all his nonsense go and writing it off as the behavior of a little baby, or not spending any more time on him at all. It's tough, but I have put in a lot of effort to talk, and try to get him to understand me. In my friend group im the intuitive, in touch with emotions one. I'm very good at reading people and situations, even if I make mistakes… I'm very confident in my appraisal of social conflicts and how people feel. But it's too much from him, so often.
This could be it. Maybe he looks like an alpha bro but doesn't act like one. Rather than worry about your partner, maybe you should take a harder look at the people who don't want to be friends with him and question where they are coming from.
Sounds like if his office is a bunch of alpha bros, then he probably doesn't laugh along with their inappropriate jokes and makes them feel like they are inappropriate. They wouldn't want someone who isn't going to want to go to strip clubs and hit on women who aren't their partners with them in Vegas, perhaps.
If your parents prefer guys who act like used car salesmen, that also kind of gives you an idea that they prefer guys who act a certain way.
Sounds like your partner found his friends when he found you.
This is lovely. You know, I’m like your boyfriend. I love an aquiline nose. It makes you look Royal!
Youre helping so fucking much thank you so much. One last question, do you think if I showed him the replies to this post (as its anonymous strangers and wont affect him in that sense), it would give what Im saying some more credibility? Or is that a terrible idea that will just cause another anrgument? I fear he will feel offended or defeatist. I just want him to see. So we can fix it. Or try. But, i have no credibility or any hope of getting through by myself
Kick her the fuck out and dont let YOUR parent offer her a place at their house. Wtf the sheer entitlement….
Leave daddy and find someone your age