The thing is you lose weight and made the choice to be healthy for yourself. Kudos to you. Don't let anyone take that away from you.
I'm not sure if their comments are out of well-meaning intentions that gone wrong or if they are just jealous of you and want to bring you down.
Some older folks do prefer a fuller physique and thought that you had starved yourself needlessly and just do not want you to get hurt.
You need to be stronger and not take their comments personally. Your current body is you now, and you love it. That's enough. Tell them this is you and if they can't accept it, that's too bad. You love what you look like now.
As for those that are just jealous of you and want to bring you down, tell them you don't appreciate their comments and move on. Nobody ain't got time for that.
Are we seriously 30years old and still putting labels on people? Alt boys grow up and are happy to find a drama free partner regardless of label as long as there compatible.
You’re insane if you think two people working the same hours should have uneven chores.
The thing is you lose weight and made the choice to be healthy for yourself. Kudos to you. Don't let anyone take that away from you.
I'm not sure if their comments are out of well-meaning intentions that gone wrong or if they are just jealous of you and want to bring you down.
Some older folks do prefer a fuller physique and thought that you had starved yourself needlessly and just do not want you to get hurt.
You need to be stronger and not take their comments personally. Your current body is you now, and you love it. That's enough. Tell them this is you and if they can't accept it, that's too bad. You love what you look like now.
As for those that are just jealous of you and want to bring you down, tell them you don't appreciate their comments and move on. Nobody ain't got time for that.
Are we seriously 30years old and still putting labels on people? Alt boys grow up and are happy to find a drama free partner regardless of label as long as there compatible.
Just dump him and be done. And 4 beers is hardly “drunk”.