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  1. I promise you I get it. While I’m a guy and I’m now happily married, I was in a long relationship that ended and was lost in the way that most people are here in on way or another.

    But the best advice I was ever given as an insecure guy at the time who felt that he same way you currently do but in the reverse, was to just go up and talk to the women you find the most attractive. Why? Because everyone’s afraid to.

    The biggest thing I learned from that is that they’re just fucking people. They want to talk. They’re thinking about the same insecurities while you’re here looking at them like they’re perfect.

    It makes you realize that there’s nothing to be afraid of. Are they still incredibly attractive to me? Absolutely, but we can now just talk like human beings and see if we’re a fit. That’s what you need to do. This guy you think is out of your league? He thinks you’re out of his.

  2. Yeah, so we probably won't be moving in together until we are married (cultural thing) and he is only done studying next year. And he only wants to marry once he actually makes an income so that we can have a dual income household.

  3. How on Earth are there so many people on this sub reading what is very clearly a sexual assault and coming away with the message that OP owes the person who sexually assaulted him an apology?

    Seriously, are you all huffing paint together under a bridge before you write your replies?

  4. Right, so everyone has outlined why this is just straight up a bad idea but have you considered what your wife is going to be asking for when her birthday rolls round?

    Which one of your mates is going to be the chosen one? Better start thinking on that because if you go through with this you're giving your wife a “but it's only fair” MMF threesome so best get your head around that too.

  5. This is how you see things. Many people attribute sex as being the most intimate part of relationship, and he thought he gets to do it with you, and only him. You could tell him many times over, you love your husband, it wouldn't do much.

    I guess you could tell him, you do not love him, and would leave him, if your husband asked you to any day of the week. Maybe it could get through to him.

  6. I did initially try to push for in-patient care, but Triss wouldn't hear it and I wasn't able to have her committed. The hospital held her for a few days after the incident, but she's back at her home now. That's why, at the least, I'd like to know she's seeing a professional in some capacity. If I could at least know that, I'd feel okay taking a step back and letting things simmer down on their own.

    You might be right about giving up on the other cousins for now. It just feels like talking to a brick wall with them at this point. I will tell them that if they haven't anything helpful to say, to just keep to themselves and stop engaging negatively with Triss. However, I don't know that I'll have much luck with the older generation either.

    Triss' dad died when she was 4, and her mom developed some serious mental health issues afterwards including an ED and Hoarding problem that she has never been willing to get help for, even to this day. They also stopped talking when Triss moved out at 18 to live with her ex, and so far as I know, never reconnected.

    I reached out to her older brother last week. They have a large age gap and aren't especially close, but they've never seemed to have any specific issues with each other, and he wasn't at the party or otherwise involved, so I thought he might be able to help. He currently lives in a different country and is trying to make arrangements to travel back and be with Triss. In the meantime, they've been talking and he's encouraging her to get help, but tells me that when he brings up the matter, Triss tells him there's no point in getting help because the whole family already hates her.

    I can try talking to my dad and our other uncles and aunts to see if they can somehow help, but I'm not sure they'll be able to do much. Most of them are of the “pick yourself up and stop feeling sorry” mindset, and the few that aren't on-line in other states and don't really have a strong relationship with Triss or any leverage they might use to convince her to seek help.

    If you have any other advice on how I might convince or press her into seeing a professional, I'd really appreciate it. So far, I've been told I have no authority to commit her even for a temporary inpatient hold, since I'm not a parent, immediate family, or guardian with power of attorney.

  7. I don’t think I even have a valid reason to feel this way.

    Shaming yourself for having these feelings isn't going to help anything. You have every right to feel hurt, betrayed, and yes, even disgusted. You can also accept that you're feeling some guilt over your reaction, since you know logically that she didn't cheat. But you gotta honor those feelings, even if they seem ugly. If you try not to feel that way without being honest and processing it, it's going to fester into a resentment that you may not be able to resolve.

    I'm sure there's a cacophony of voices telling you to pursue marriage counseling. I want to join them. You and your wife are the perfect candidates for it: you love each other, something messy happened, and you both want to get through it together. I hope you will pursue counseling as an option here.

    I don't know your situation; lots of people don't have access to marriage counseling. So, barring that, I have one other simple suggestion: talk to her. Seems obvious, but seriously. Share your feelings, raw and honest. Tell her every single thought that crosses your mind. Lean on her. It probably isn't going to be as easy as it sounds, because naturally you'll want to put up your defenses. But if you want to trust her, this is how it starts. Put yourself out there and make yourself vulnerable to her. Ask her for help and support, and trust her to give you that. Tell her what you need (as well as you can figure out) and rely on her to provide it.

    The worst thing that can happen is that she shows you she can't be relied on as your partner through this. That would be heartbreaking. But you'd know. And based on what you're saying, I don't think it's going to go that wag.

    Best of luck to you both.❤️

  8. You saw a finger nail in a photo. That’s all. You don’t have any evidence of cheating or anything remotely like that.

    Your mom and dad are separating and are entitled to see other people. Maybe he is seeing someone but doesn’t want to tell your mom yet because it will hurt her. Maybe he doesn’t want to tell his kids yet because he doesn’t know whether this will be a long term partner that he will introduce to his family. He has a right to privacy during this time, just like your mom.

    Forget you saw anything and let them both on-line their life and navigate the new normal. Support your mom and dad through the process. That’s all you can really do.

  9. This is extreme. Some people “are the company they keep.” His concerns are not abusive. Divorce and infidelity can be “contagious” in a social network.

    If she doesn’t have any monogamous or faithful friends too, it would be nice if she got some.

    I’d ask her or the friends: If she’s drunk and someone hot wants to kiss her on the dance floor, what does she want her friends to do? Will they step in and check on her, and help her tell the dude that she is not available? Or are they going to cheer her on and tell her it’s ok, it’s just a kiss, they’d never tell her bf, she should have her fun, etc?

    You ultimately have to trust her but you can ask that she make those kinds of expectations clear and make some plans to support her own relational goals.

  10. You're asking a person with a high sex drive to not have much sex, or even look at porn.

    You two aren't compatible.

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